When it comes down to it..:

If you found your true love but they don't match your idea of physical attractiveness what do you do? Do you realize that the true love means more to you than your preferences or do you pass up on your true love? Why and how is this?

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SW-User

well thats better than finding your true love and they dont have those same feelings for you.

TheLoveAge · 36-40, F

I don't know I used to feel the same way but I've had my unrequited love story and I don't regret it. The physical appearance wasn't the issue but he didn't love me. But I'm very grateful I got to experience a side of love at least. I'm all the better for it. I guess it just depends though.

SW-User

yeah well im still not over my person i fell for.

TheLoveAge · 36-40, F

@theowl: It's alright. When you find yourself thinking of that person focus more on how much meaning and goodness they brought to you, as opposed to the more challenging aspects of the memories. But adjourn with this thought- both sides were good anyway and I'm grateful for this experience. It has shaped me to be the person I am today. I look forward to having fulfilling experiences of requited love.
Basically saying affirmations. I won't get too off topic but this helps to get you to shift into positive state of mind, and being. Practice it for a little and notice what comes up. Much love and peace to you 💕

SW-User

its not that easy there was a lot of fighting. they had a dark side to them. lied a lot. fooled around with a lot of men because they dont believe in relationships. just sexual encounters. got mad at me for caller her out. that kind of ended the friendship because she couldnt take someone who seemed to judge her for her behavior.

SW-User

she became narcissistic. always putting blame on someone else for her actions or lies. its dumb really caring about someone who constantly lied or is just fooling around.