What do you value the most in life?

first priorities:
commitment to accepting reality as it is
honesty
responsibility
empathy, kindness, consideration for the needs of others
warm engagement with friends and hubby

Second:
intellect and creativity - without them I get very bored very quickly.
Fortunately I get plenty with my poetry and writers groups and at the uni.
By the time I come home I'm ready to dumb down again and blob out.