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Update: mood has been ruined

Mom talked about how all anyone does is sit on their ass and get fatter and then she said I’m wearing too much make up . Well guess what? Make up was helping me cope with an abusive boyfriend that I have to stay with because she keeps saying she’ll never have grandkids .
JupiterDreams · 31-35
[i]Dump him[/i]. This is not healthy. Don't spend the rest of your life with someone that's going to abuse you.

And it doesn't matter if your parent wants grandkids. It's not her life, not her choice. What you want is more important.
@antisocialbutterfly being abusive and making everyone around him miserable is a pretty good reason not to submit children to his behavior.
antisocialbutterfly · 22-25, F
What’s so bad about that ? I love kids I will spend time with them .@BlueVeins
BlueVeins · 22-25
@antisocialbutterfly You're gonna have a job and are gonna have to take care of him, too. Besides, kids deserve two loving parents not just one, if at all possible.
summersong · F
Do not stay with an abusive boyfriend but definitely do not have children with anyone who is abusive. If your mom can’t look out for your wellbeing you need to make damn sure you are.
SW-User
Get rid of that boyfriend. Surround yourself with good people and good habits. 😅
SW-User
@SW-User This
SW-User
You're letting other people run your life (meaning your mom and your boyfriend) and they're cancer. The only thing to do is cut the cancer out.
Miram · 31-35, F
You already know the right thing to do. Dependency is a bitch and it will make you create excuses.
Your mum sounds delightful
But seriously,leave everybody. Get your own place start having fun. If you want children look into becoming financially independent and stable and look into options such as adoption,sperm donors etc. You dont need to have a partner to have children. Let alone an abusive one. Or have them for your mother. I would hate to die feeling miserable . Might already consider yourself dead
turbineman40 · 80-89, M
If you don't like your boyfriend, leave him. You have to live with him,not mom
Yeah. No. F that. Nobody tells you who to be with except you.
SW-User
Leave that idiot and get out on your own.



Other 👏 people 👏 don’t 👏 get 👏 to 👏 live 👏 your 👏 life 👏 for 👏 you 👏

Stop letting people make your decisions for you
Say no.
Say no.
Get out of there dammit
Fuck...I'm sorry to hear that!
SW-User
You... don’t have to stay with him. Fuck her grandkids. You’re literally 18-21. You haven’t even reached your prime for kids.
antisocialbutterfly · 22-25, F
Well I want kids too so...@SW-User
SW-User
Don’t have kids with a piece of shit
Don’t hold on to something because you’re afraid you won’t feel loved again.
You aren’t loved by him now. Otherwise he wouldn’t treat you like shit 💯 @antisocialbutterfly
candycane · 31-35, F
Fuck if I stay with an abusive boyfriend I'd live on the street first

 
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