Why are city boys so feminine?

@Crazychick Exactly. It's what's in the box, not the wrapping paper. Scots and kilts. In some cultures men and women both traditionally wear skirted robes. Are men who wear dresses by choice more feminine? Probably, but it's not the dress that does it.

@Mamapolo2016 Scottish guys don't look feminine in kilts.

@Crazychick My point.

@BlueMetalChick I was born and raised in Jefferson Park, and presently reside in Portage Park - Northwest side of the city. More power to you and all other people from our hometown. Chicago loves people and we love it back.

@MaryJanine Portage Park will forever remind me of the Portage Theater. I went there to see the Misfits in concert. What I loved most is how much of a rat infested shithole the theater is. Somehow that makes it so much better for a punk concert. Like I don't wanna see the Misfits in some nice ass bougie venue, I wanna see them in a place that smells like cigarette smoke with graffiti all over the walls.

@BlueMetalChick I'm sorry you had to experience that. Seeing that kind of thing is sad and sorry evidence of how the owners didn't keep it up properly.

Dirt (graffiti) is one thing. Rats are another. When I first moved in here, I turned over in bed one night and THOUGHT I saw one in my kitchen. I was half-asleep at the time and I figured I was seeing things. I went back to sleep and discovered I was wrong when I was going to sit down to breakfast and saw one come out from under my kitchen table to say "GOOD morning!" to me. It was the size of a small cat and it stopped when it saw me and blinked. I beat it to death with the broom, disposed of it, then sent the landlord an EMail to fix the problem. They were there the next day and lengthened the metal flashing on the bottom of the door. (They were coming up from the laundry room.)

@pomanJoe i'm a good girl sweetie, i wouldn't look so bad if i could transition hormonally and had surgery to swap my genitals.


Fall in love with boys that DO love girls like me.


Girl with a pulse in a panty, not girl without a pulse in nothing, like dolls and robots

@raysam363 If you're in a low income neighborhood, this couldn't be further from the truth.

@BlueMetalChick I grew up in a low income neighborhood in baltimore. If you didn't wear the newest and the trendiest, you were treated like dirt. But one experience doesn't cover all.

@raysam363 I spent my preteen years in a low income neighborhood in Chicago. Everyone dressed like trash and most of the concern was making money to buy food, and not getting killed by drug addicts.

But, that being said, most of the neighborhood was occupied by poor immigrants from Mexico and Cuba, so that probably makes a difference.

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout Read my reply under the microwave question. The little boy is dead; Mommy and Daddy are BOTH in jail; and his younger brother and infant sister are both in foster care.

@Immia Are they? I don't know any, I'm a city girl myself.

@pomanJoe Some would kill you trying to prove otherwise. They’re certainly no one’s definition of feminine.