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Is there any one that leads a normal life?

No disorders or issues, someone that accepts themselves and is rather confident but not showy or arrogant. You know down to earth
Everyone has issues
Davemcdave · 46-50, M
@BettyBeez depends on how you look at things...
Are you dealing with it, making it your sob story, or struggling to get a grasp of what's going on
FreeOrchid · 36-40, F
You mean people that are self aware 🤷🏽‍♀️ ?
Plenty of people are, they understand and cope with their issues.
xixgun · M
I'm more normal than anyone I know.
Biffed · 26-30, M
Doomflower · 36-40, M
[quote]Normal people are just people you don't know very well.

-Alfred Adler[/quote]
Davemcdave · 46-50, M
@Doomflower perfect I want to not know people then
Doomflower · 36-40, M
@Davemcdave doggos are the best people
Davemcdave · 46-50, M
@Doomflower doggos?
SweetMae · 70-79, F
Most people accept themselves and are confident in spite of their disorders or issues.
Davemcdave · 46-50, M
@SweetMae I am finding that's not the case Mae, I've been told it's boring
Redstar · 36-40, M
Sadwithasmile · 22-25, M
You mean abnormal life
Davemcdave · 46-50, M
@Sadwithasmile but you know somethings we battle with are like teething issues. Especially when we're younger. Identity sexuality that's normal and eventually we grow out of it and accept ourselves which is incredibly freeing.
I'm not judging you.
Sadwithasmile · 22-25, M
@Davemcdave I got sexually & mentally abused as a child, I don’t think you really grow out of that without therapy😂
Davemcdave · 46-50, M
@Sadwithasmile no of course not but trust me, The fact you're seeking help means you're already trying to grow and heal. That's a massive step. Be proud of yourself.
I don't want to apologise because I have been told it can feel like pity. And I don't want you to feel bad. Know that I am very proud of you.
Redstar · 36-40, M
That just sounds boring.
Redstar · 36-40, M
@Davemcdave Seems like you're looking for perfection, which sounds good in theory but it would get really boring. Life and relationships need not be perfect, without the downs we couldn't enjoy the ups.
I can't imagine a single adult not having at least a few issues. Life does that to you. So if someone truly had no issues at all, I don't think they'd be a very interesting person.

And personally, I think attractiveness can be found in some "issues".
Davemcdave · 46-50, M
@Redstar Well I'm glad you think that way. We can't all be the same. You know before we started to talk about issues many stars had jaded lives for example, but where admired for all their positivity and not their pain. When I say normal that's what I mean. A person not wallowing in self pity or using their trauma as their key in life. A person that hones in on skills to take them away from their pain.
Redstar · 36-40, M
@Davemcdave That's not what your words made it sound like you were saying.
And what's with the attitude?

 
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