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Have you ever felt alone in grief?

PeachesF
YES! 馃槶馃挃When my sister was killed in a car accident my ex kept yelling at me to GET OVER IT?! I also found out she was pregnant too. She had just turned 30 years old...I will NEVER get over it. One day he even pushed me down because I couldn't stop crying for her. I had no other family here to turn to. Those were some of the darkest days of my life.
Niloo46-50, F
@PhoenixPhail
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ZorannaF
@Peaches I am so sorry for your loss. 馃槩
PeachesF
@Zoranna Thank you, 馃槍but I know I will see her again.馃挄馃挋
SW-User
Specially when I grieved the loss of my cat... Nobody seemed to understand.

And in other circumstances too
@Bushmanoz she's dead now.
Bushmanoz56-60, M
@Whiterosesociety You have had a tough time, sorry to hear it
SweetMae70-79, F
I was alone for months after my mother died. That was very hard.
Bushmanoz56-60, M
@SweetMae Sorry to hear you lost your mother
SweetMae70-79, F
@Bushmanoz Thank you!
MagentaF
Not for people whom have died, as I know other loved ones felt the same loss. But I most definitely did for a lost love that still lives..
ravenwind4351-55, F
Yes....but in some ways I welcome the solitude and isolation. I don't like sharing my pain with others.
ravenwind4351-55, F
Yes definitely, but I think in some parts of grief solitude is helpful. I have found that for myself.
SW-User
yes. at that moment felt that I was the only one in the world that cared...kind of devastating...
SW-User
Yes. Recently, and currently. It's no fun.
ZorannaF
@SW-User It's awful, you have my sympathies. 馃様
SW-User
@Zoranna Thank you. I appreciate that. And ditto.
PhoenixPhailM
I'm almost ALWAYS alone in grief.
Niloo46-50, F
Carissimi70-79, F
Oh yes. It makes the loss even harder because there is no one to comfort you. I鈥檓 so sorry. 馃槩
ZorannaF
@Carissimi Thank you so much. It's getting a little easier now and I do actually have extended family (sisters and a brother), we were all grieving in our own way and have comforted each other since when we could. It was sad for everyone and hard to explain but I was the closest to Mum and actually lived next door. Thank you again.
SW-User
SW-User
@Zoranna oh, I know he does; she was his daughter as well, so I don't push him to talk. I love him for who he is.
ZorannaF
@SW-User I was thinking of one of my sisters when I wrote that. She's grieving in her own way I hope because she didn't turn up today.
SW-User
@Zoranna oh sweetheart can you check on her? Sometimes people need their alone time, but they also want to know we care. Hugs, Zoranna!
Peppa31-35, F
Very much so...
SW-User
Absolutely
curiosi61-69, F
Yes, I took a page from my Jewish friends book. I covered the mirrors. It helped.
ExtremeNext31-35
Many times 馃様
Cloudiness26-30, F
Makes me Sad
Bushmanoz56-60, M
Had no idea, I thought it was just a general question, i'm really sorry, it does get easier with a time..it never completely stops though.
SW-User
@Bushmanoz you have a very kind and empathetic heart
Bushmanoz56-60, M
@SW-User Thank you, it makes me a soft touch sometimes though
PhoenixPhailM
@SW-User So do you.
Bushmanoz56-60, M
Men of my era were brought up not to share, or even show it. So yeah, many times

 
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