Does providing service to your family or friends and being a 'slave' to their desires the same thing?

There can be a thin line between the two. If you find it to be draining, you never receive any reciprocation, and you feel under appreciated you probably are being used.

No. That only happens when you allow them to take advantage of your generosity.

What type of services are we referring to? 🤔

no, knowing when you are being used and it’s going too far is the key.