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How often do you and your spouse/SO have a fight?

I'm in one now 🙄😠 and I'm not apologizing. 😖
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
We don’t fight. It’s been 27 years. I won’t fight at this stage of the marriage. That ship sailed. I want peace and civility.
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@Keepitsimple nice! Mine can be doozies
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Awww, I’m sorry :( it’s hard for sure. @SW-User
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@Keepitsimple Thank you
ChiyoSKL · 31-35, F
Honestly, my soon to be ex husband and I never argued. I almost think that was apart of the problem. It was very unhealthy.
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@ChiyoSKL yeah its good to air you're differences once in a while
indyjoe · 56-60, M
My wife and I have never had a real fight in the nearly 16 years we've known each other...of course we have had small disagreements and we have gotten on each other's nerves a time or two, but we have never been really angry at or with each other. Little tiffs are rare, and big fights are non-existent. We just have always gotten along so well.
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@indyjoe That is fantastic! Congrats
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Very rarely. Its not worth the aggravation any more.
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@Degbeme it's okay...thanks for listening 💙
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@SW-User 🤗
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@Degbeme thanks Deg
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We agree I am right 💯 of the time
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@SW-User He still doesn't pick up after himself all the time...but hell that's a little thing
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FloridaGuy · 46-50, M
Almost never, anymore. When it approaches a certain level of frustration, we put it on hold to address with calmer minds.
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@FloridaGuy so lucky
Definitely not as often as we did in the first year of our marriage (2001-2002) 😂.
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@latinbutterfly so you made it thru haha
@SW-User Yep 😅.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
My coparent... once a week or so.
FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
I'll start a fight for angry make up sex. 🤷‍♀️
Thinkerbell · 41-45, F
@Platinum

[i]A circumspect son of a gun,
Who valued his balls like as none,
Once let caution diminish,
And when he did finish,
He found, 'stead of two, he had ONE.[/i]  😨
Platinum · M
Does one ball turn you on@Thinkerbell
Thinkerbell · 41-45, F
@Platinum

No, not at all... 🤭

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About every two weeks or so. It would be more than that, but you apparently need to communicate before you can argue.
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@PrivateHell I understand he's under stress at work and his family. but don't bring that shit home with you 🙄
@SW-User amen. And if something is bothering her, she needs to discuss it before it becomes an issue and she gets pissed. Talk to me like a human being.
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@PrivateHell ☝️
Platinum · M
We never fight, we disagree over silly things but we are friends and been together for 59 years in two weeks time...we are great together
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@Platinum fantastic!!!
I need an SO first.

Sorry to learn of that. if you feel you are correct in this do NOT back down. They can learn their place sometimes.

You'll apologize (sort of) but it won't be for a few days. And it won't be for them or because you admit defeat or craziness. But you will do it FOR YOU so you can move on and get past this. A lesson lost on men,...sadly.
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@Elandra77 Thank you E 💙
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Quite a bit haha
NativeOregonian · 51-55
Towards the end, until the very last month, my late fiancee was always starting arguments right when I was ready to leave for work.
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@NativeOregonian I hate those
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@SW-User As do I, I was late for work at least once a week, sometimes more. I was eventually fired over it.
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@BlackClapTrap I cant do that 🤣
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Stand your ground. He'll listen eventually. Once he calms down
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@Arkansaskid yeah one would hope
Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
Never give in Lily... you stand strong and make him beg!!
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@Spokeskitties75 yeah!!! Thanks SK 😁
jackson55 · M
Little disagreements from time to time, but fights? never. What's the point?
jaymic64 · M
Not much anymore. We don’t really talk much.
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@jaymic64 you need to communicate once in a while
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Turtlepower · 36-40, M
But was it your fault? :P
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@Turtlepower not this time. He's gonna have to apologize to me first
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
@SW-User That's fair :D
Same except not really
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@MrFreeeeeze awww sorry T
Timbucktoo · F
Well, it's regular, every month we have to disagree and there would be some kind of tiff, and then it would be okay for the next 3 weeks lol..
Fighting is a good sign that you guys care for eachother.Though, if disagreements are larger, then it's a totally different story.
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
generally a really good one every month and smaller ones prob once a week
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@Stereoguy wow lucky you
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@RogueLoner I dunno

 
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