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TinyViolins · 31-35, M
I'd like to give you hope and encouragement, but the reality is that most people aren't willing to give you that care and attention you need.
People avoid weak links. It's why we feel bad for bullied kids, but don't associate with them. People will feel sorry for homeless people, but do nothing to help. Same with us that are suffering with mental illness or emotional neglect. People will empathize, but not dedicate much effort to our wellness.
It's a product of evolution, I think. Everything is kinda geared for survival, and having to dedicate time and resources on one person slows the whole tribe down a little. It puts them in jeopardy, so they'd rather ignore it
I'm in the same exact boat. Even the friends I would gain that I was upfront about my issues with stopped caring after a while. People in general would rather live a happy lie than an uncomfortable truth. And we wonder why suicides, overdoses, and mass shootings are a thing. We're the problem
So yeah, that's my spiel. I'm killing myself once my money runs out, so I've already made peace with the arrangement. Hopefully you fare better than me
People avoid weak links. It's why we feel bad for bullied kids, but don't associate with them. People will feel sorry for homeless people, but do nothing to help. Same with us that are suffering with mental illness or emotional neglect. People will empathize, but not dedicate much effort to our wellness.
It's a product of evolution, I think. Everything is kinda geared for survival, and having to dedicate time and resources on one person slows the whole tribe down a little. It puts them in jeopardy, so they'd rather ignore it
I'm in the same exact boat. Even the friends I would gain that I was upfront about my issues with stopped caring after a while. People in general would rather live a happy lie than an uncomfortable truth. And we wonder why suicides, overdoses, and mass shootings are a thing. We're the problem
So yeah, that's my spiel. I'm killing myself once my money runs out, so I've already made peace with the arrangement. Hopefully you fare better than me
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SteelHands · 61-69, M
TinyViolins · 31-35, M
@SteelHands You can't gaslight me, man. The proof is in the writing, so feel free to quote me if you want to plead your case.
If you want to spin my words into whatever axe you want to grind, that's not my problem. I'm not going to sit here and satisfy your moral superiority
If you want to spin my words into whatever axe you want to grind, that's not my problem. I'm not going to sit here and satisfy your moral superiority
SteelHands · 61-69, M
Now you want to gauge your moral standing with yourself and put me down?
Don't be absurd. In my failure to read you intuitively I must have completely missed the part where you said me and my offspring were not being generous enough, and putting an unnecessary burden on suicide threatening encouraging generosity like yours.
List exactly what I and mine owe this world that we haven't already done or shut your stupid Gerber ass mouth.
Don't be absurd. In my failure to read you intuitively I must have completely missed the part where you said me and my offspring were not being generous enough, and putting an unnecessary burden on suicide threatening encouraging generosity like yours.
List exactly what I and mine owe this world that we haven't already done or shut your stupid Gerber ass mouth.
SoFine · 46-50, F
You matter the most to you.
The only one that needs to understand you - is "you"
To know thyself, is your life purpose.
These 2 life tools will help anchor you in.
They are:A. Your worth of self B. Your love of self
People teach us about ourselves, why? As we are mirrors of each other. Those patterns that occur over and over, will indicate to you, where your own understanding of you needs your time and effort.
By the time your body ends it's existence, then you may indeed "Know they self" or still be dumb founded and looking for others to make you happy.
The only one that needs to understand you - is "you"
To know thyself, is your life purpose.
These 2 life tools will help anchor you in.
They are:A. Your worth of self B. Your love of self
People teach us about ourselves, why? As we are mirrors of each other. Those patterns that occur over and over, will indicate to you, where your own understanding of you needs your time and effort.
By the time your body ends it's existence, then you may indeed "Know they self" or still be dumb founded and looking for others to make you happy.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
@SoFine You gotta be a Stanford grad to have all that fit into that summery. So Marty.
All true, of course. Just incompatible with Bumstead narcissism is all.
Summary smarty.
All true, of course. Just incompatible with Bumstead narcissism is all.
Summary smarty.
SoFine · 46-50, F
@SteelHands My history is from Southern Africa. To observe and see life, is to put one's self in all situations.
We each are our own life saviour, we each have us be happy, to not blame others for things going wrong.
1. Leave the past in the past.
2. Each day is new. If patterns reoccur, then what is the universe telling you.
3. Happiness is a "state of mind"
(No USA blood running in this body.)
We each are our own life saviour, we each have us be happy, to not blame others for things going wrong.
1. Leave the past in the past.
2. Each day is new. If patterns reoccur, then what is the universe telling you.
3. Happiness is a "state of mind"
(No USA blood running in this body.)
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FreestyleArt · 31-35, M
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@FreestyleArt whoopdie do
SteelHands · 61-69, M
That's never so. That's just a lie we tell ourselves because we're too stubborn to forgive and ask forgiveness.