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I hate living in a house of men! How can I deal with it?

Ever since my mother left us, I was the only girl on the house and still is. I can't afford to move out and my dad doesn't think I'm ready. I'm stuck here. I don't wanna live with my aun't because....it's not that I don't love her. I do but I think she bugs me too much and always calls me if I'm busy especially when I'm on breaks. She always come over and ask if I wanna go somewhere or spend the night. She has been trying to get me to spend the night with her. She said to "Fill on the loss of a mother figure and I need a mother and plus I won't be on a house of men. She said O am her favorite out of all her nieces. And prefers me over others. Anyways getting off topic.
I live with my dad, two brothers and my two cousins (one of them moved in with us and has been staying with us for 7 months). I get jealous of my girlfriend's because they love with their mothers. My best friend has an older sister she can count on. I have NO sisters. Just brothers. I love them but still. I love my home but sometimes I don't wanna be there and I hate changes.
NativeOregonian · 51-55
I can see where your aunt is coming from, it does sound she wants to help, but she is also being a bit too smothering and needs you to ask her to give you some space. As for your Dad, how soon before you are 18? Do you have plans on going to college? I think you need to set a goal to be on your own and plan accordingly with steps that are acheivable, I am wishing you luck :)
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NativeOregonian · 51-55
@EmptyGirl2001 I wish I knew :(
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find more felamale friends or try to understand them better,me and my dad are close but i wish we were closer, i always listen to his advice and at least try to do it. they are just like women someties if they feel appreciated then they would want to treat you that way too and help you.
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@EmptyGirl2001 dont hang out with them with their mothers go out and meet them at a park. there are ways around the issue of seeing their mom.
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DunningKruger · 61-69, M
"My dad doesn't think I'm ready." Are you an adult? Then it doesn't matter what your dad thinks.
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zeeva70 · F
How old are you? I'm sorry you're going through this, not judging, and just curious.
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zeeva70 · F
@EmptyGirl2001 Once you're rejected by your mother (or father I imagine), it's easier not to allow joy in your life such as your aunt. You deserve love and goodness. Please spend some time with your aunt and focus more on the good you have in your life.
@EmptyGirl2001 sorry about that - lots of moms in their 30s for instance try to regain their youth a second or even a third time - each time settling for less and less. -
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@EmptyGirl2001 ya - know always going out - partying - things like that
I get that it’s easy to keep posting about this, but have you looked into getting counseling in order to work through your feelings about your mother ? Especially since you’ve said you’re jealous of your friends, which is toxic and unhelpful ? 🤔
@EmptyGirl2001 Counseling. Even if it means calling a free crisis hotline might help, rather than risking losing your friends over this.
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eMortal · M
@bijouxbroussard lol you got caught up in her/his erotic fantasy.

 
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