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So I'm on a "date" with a guy at an ice cream place

We are meeting for the first time. He didn't even offer to buy me the ice cream. Im kinda turned off but I'm going to assume he's low on cash
SteelHands · 61-69, M Best Comment
Tell the bass turd to buy you one. Say it like that too.

Hey dumbass where is the ice cream cone I was expecting?
SteelHands · 61-69, M
Thx4 ba. Hope u both made nice after that.

Uh, that’s cringy. First dates are so weird like that. I think the guy needs to at least offer to pay on a first date especially if he asked you out.
SW-User
@Stark i like to hit it raw and make babies 🏃
Elegy · 46-50
@SW-User 🤣
It’s not complicated unless you know the person.
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
Or confused about what to do in these PC days of feminism.
DonotInboxMe · 26-30, F
@dancingtongue it's not feminism. But he has been pushing to go out with me and see me but he finally got the chance n doesn't do the basic stuff. I won't point it out to him but I won't get in a relationship with him
Quizzical · 46-50, M
@dancingtongue That's exactly what I was going to say...

You never know if you are doing the right thing, or the VERY wrong thing anymore
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
The big clue is who suggested meeting for ice cream. If he suggested, he should automatically expect to pay and gender isn't an issue. If she suggested, offer to go Dutch.
LyricalOne · F
And he asked you out? I’d say later to El Cheapo.
bigryand · 31-35, M
Could be nervous. If he's the one who was suggesting the idea to meet then he should offer at least.
Well one of two things. Either he didn't have the cash, which is hopefully not the case as ice cream costs a couple of dollars..or maybe he thought offering to pay for your ice cream would be considered sexist. I had that happen to me on a date not too long ago.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Then act like it's not a date at all and you have no intention to be something more than a friend to him.
That's sort of a turn off ... but maybe he's too shy and nervous.. good luck 🙂
SW-User
Did you even offer to go half?

The first date will tell me a lot about the girl I'm with. This will be her first impression on me. She will try her hardest I'm this singular event to impress me.

If she's not polite enough to offer to contribute to anything on the first date, she ain't ever going to contribute to shit.

🚶‍♂️ the decision is that or this 🏃‍♂️
SW-User
haha first date stories are fun
SW-User
Did he ask you out? If he invited you, he should have paid. If he couldn’t afford to pay, he should have planned something he could afford even if it was just a free walk through a park or something like that.
So, what, you’re going Dutch? Had you discussed this? Did he aske you out or did the two of you agree to meet?
english · 56-60, M
first date and he cant even buy you ice cream, kick his ass to the curb cheapskate thats outrageous 🙃😎
Sicarium · 46-50, M
The guy paying is "soft sexism" now. Can't have it both ways.
SW-User
Nice date

 
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