If you had the choice would you rather be an introvert or an extrovert?

I like being an introvert and I have extroverted moments, I'm good.

I'm an introvert by nature too. I've had moments when I've wished that I could be more extroverted, when I've been nervous about meeting new people, or struggling to come up with something to say in a job interview. But I've come to realize that I'm really better off being an introvert. I sometimes see [b]some[/b] (though not all) extroverts being rude, by asking questions and then talking over people when they try to answer, or bouncing quickly from person to person to person, asking "How are you?" and then moving on to the next person before they can answer, or just blurting out thoughtless, hurtful statements without thinking. I tend to have the opposite problem. I have things that I want to say but struggle with finding just the right way to say them, and then I kick myself later when the right words come to me.

However, I have my moments, when something that has been building inside me for a long time comes out and takes everyone by surprise. I think in some ways I resemble a volcano, or at least my emotions do. They build slowly, unnoticed by almost everyone around me, until they can no longer be contained, and then, when I go off, watch out. I guess this is rather unhealthy, and it has been known to get me into trouble at times. I suppose the trick is to find the right moment to say what I need to say, in a calm way that will have the right effect. But this is hard when some people don't want to listen.

I like my middle ground of introvert/extrovert. It means i can be outspoken when I want to and also I can hide away if I’m feeling nervous

Introvert. It's more comforting.

I'm actually an outgoing introvert!

Yeah, 😌my brother was like that too. I miss him so much! Same thing with kind people, some will think they're weak. That's another BIG MISTAKE!😏

I'm torn between the two. My hearts an extrovert but my mind is introverted. Funny. I love going out and stuff but then feel like shit for days

I'm an introvert. I work with people, so have to be extrovert while working but it exhausts me. I don't mind that, but I need my space at the end of each day.

I'm an extrovert, I like that I can make friends in any situation but I wish I could slow down sometimes

I'm introvert by nature as well. Excellent choice in my decision. If I had to choose? I would choose the same. My life is more calm and peaceful. There is less drama and excitement. I meet less people but the quality of people I deal with matters more than the quantity.

I'm an introvert ,I think life would be easier if I were an extrovert...since introverts are perceived in a negative way

spent more time trying to be an extrovert, and had to get honest bc. i'm actually shy and quiet and require alone time. But still attempt to be extroverted at times.

I'm an introvert (INFJ), and can't imagine not being. I don't always like it, but I don't feel I have a choice. It's just who I am.

Same. Most people don't know me, at all.

I am an introvert, but I have a job that demands a degree of extroversion ..

I wish I could be just the right balance.

I've always been introverted. I can't imagine being any other way.

I'm an introvert and don't mind it

Introverts are so very misunderstood. 👀

I wouldn't want to ba a vert of any kind.

I'd rather be a pervert

Hmmm