I always feel like a lot of people I interact with especially irl are bullshitting me most times they're telling me something

So I live and stay alone and I only speak with a few people and have just basic conversations with them. I'm starting to feel like I have a problem, especially with trust. Because it does get lonely sometimes and I wonder why I always feel like I'm the only one that people are trying to take advantage of

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whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M

Its not just you. Trust me. The world is made up of sheep sheepdogs and wolves. Right now, is a good time for the wolves. They have a role model to look to. Just be the "you" you can live with. and adjust your life accordingly. Times will change. You dont have to unless you wish.

LyricalOne · F

Who the heck are you interacting with? Maybe you need a change of scenery. Either that or work on your self esteem if everyone’s looking to take advantage of you.

rickfreeman15 · 22-25, M

@LyricalOne that could be it too, I'm finishing all my exams for my degree this week and maybe things will change

rickfreeman15 · 22-25, M

@LyricalOne and yes I think I do have self esteem issues

LyricalOne · F

@rickfreeman15 Then work on them. You teach people how to treat you. You feel better about yourself, you’ll command better treatment.

MarmeeMarch · M

Dude you live in [u][i][b]Nigeria[/b][/i][/u] and you are talking about people taking advantage of you ? - Come on man.

rickfreeman15 · 22-25, M

@MarmeeMarch maybe its just the culture here and I never truly adapted. Been here since 2006 and I thought I'd gotten used to living as a Nigerian but maybe I haven't

MarmeeMarch · M

@rickfreeman15 🤷‍♂️

curiosi · 61-69, F

You may not have recognized it but I sure have. You are not ordinary my friend, there is a special calling on you.

rickfreeman15 · 22-25, M

@curiosi I don't see it

curiosi · 61-69, F

@rickfreeman15 You will, when you are ready.

PiecingBabyFaceTogether · 26-30

I know how you feel! I have basic conversations with everyone even my offline only friend and it's killing me how I can never trust him the way he trusts me.

MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M

Sometimes it's just paranoia. Take the time to think things thoroughly and understand the situation.

rickfreeman15 · 22-25, M

@MURD3RM0NK3Y I'd like to think so but I got swindled of all my savings 2 years ago after trusting someone and now I really don't want anything like that to happen again, not just with money but like I don't want to be cheated by someone I trusted

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