How come some people don't let you mourn over death of loved one? Everyone has been telling me...

S2dio57 · M

So sorry for your loss -
I lost my Dad 2006-
This is what I did-
go be YOU and mourn somewhere alone that YOU want to be and just let it out ...
say everything you want or needed to be said ... “I loved you so much” “ I wanted to say this” whatever- let it out
I chose a cliff over the ocean near my home where I grew up -and my Dad raised me-
I’m at peace ✌🏽...
Good luck and peace .
🤗
✌🏽

Montanaman · M

I wasn't able to comprehend my Mom's death. Never fully mourned. It really fucked me up.
I ended up making a series of bad mistakes at work and lost my job.

Now, I have properly mourned her, and have come to accept her passing.

Allow yourself the time and necessity to properly mourn and grieve, even if Others won't allow you too. 💔💔💕💕🤗🤗

MushroomFaerie

I'm so sorry for your loss.
It is true that you need to move forward but if its only just happened then yeah they are on you a bit too much. Work is usually bad, they normally demand you come back to work after 3 days here which isn't long enough for most people but your friends and family should let you grieve for whatever time you need but make sure you take care of yourself.
You mother wants you to live a full and happy life as we all loose our loved ones and carry on as your mother herself would have done also when she experienced loss.
Youll be able to feel your mother still loving you and it should bring you some comfort... They take their love with them ❤️

SW-User

I'm so sorry. People who offer advice as you put it are really just looking for words they don't know how to express. They will miss the mark, as likely you have set the standard high - grief does that, you need to see who value you

A way to make the feeling of loneliness, missing that relationship, go away. Or at least how I see now what I did to friends after my father died; even if fairly.

Was a funny time of my life. Not entirely done. It never really is done. In grief you learn just how much someone meant to you. How another can't reproduce in you. It's not a wonder why many struggle

Your family may not be insensitive. They may not know how to express their inner feelings. It's normal.

YukikoAmagi

[c=#359E00]there is truth about what they said[/c]

Phire1 · 51-55, F

My condolences to you

People handle grief differently and on their own time.

Pat999 · 31-35, M

I am so sorry, loss of a loved one is the hardest thing in the world.

JustLikeGreta · F

Your family is concerned about you. Take your own time to grieve. Sounds like you lost your Mom recently.

SW-User

I lost my mom 3 years ago and since then, my life went down hill. I literally have no idea what to do with my life anymore. And i still miss her everyday.

wintersecret · 41-45, M

Sorry for the Loss you had of Mom.

It must be very much painful. But in life after sometime we need move on

Your Mom from the heaven would never like to see you crying and in pain

🤗

Rippie · 31-35, M

Sometimes people need to a lot of time to mourn and there’s nothing wrong with that. My dad passed away a little over 6 months ago. Take all the time you need

InvaderNice · 26-30, M

Sorry everyone is rushing you to get better. They need to leave you the fuck alone.

Ian123 · 61-69, M

You need time to grieve. Yes you do need to move on but in your own time. You will feel better and be glad that you did what you needed

zeeva70 · F

Everyone grieves differenly. It makes other people feel uncomfortable but feel your feelings.

SW-User

I am so sorry for you loss.

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