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What would you do if someone from your child hood kept stalking you online?

I have this very toxic person from my child hood. We were friends for a very long time but I cut her off when she became very toxic.

I mean like she was trying to drag me down to her level and make my life a misery. Even once said her own mother was dead when she was still very much alive.

She keeps sending friend requests on Facebook under different names and accounts all together. Even as a male sometimes. It's become increasingly annoying and worrying. I have reported her to Facebook multiple times and even told her to leave me alone or else. But she just doesn't get the message.

Any advice for me here? I just don't know how else to get this person to get the message I don't want her in my life at all as shes even hassled my teenage brother and entire family.
SW-User
Make your account private and do not accept requests from strangers. If you want to add someone, you initiate it.
SW-User
@Silentangel That is too much of a hassle and I can imagine how stressful it gets. FB really hides its settings, but its in there somewhere. You can hide your profile.
Silentangel · 26-30, F
@SW-User yes it's believed that's what the royal family do! I'll have a hunt for sure. I think it's time to take matters Futher now for sure. Thank you so much for the advice!
SW-User
@Silentangel You're welcome.
SW-User
Close your Facebook account and make an anonymous one just for close family members. If she doesn't know your account she can't send you friend requests . She seems to be jealous of you .
Silentangel · 26-30, F
@SW-User indeed my last one was telling her I would issue a restraining order on her
SW-User
When she does not back away you have to get aggressive . Good luck @Silentangel
Silentangel · 26-30, F
@SW-User yeah I don't want to but I feel I have no choice now
LyricalOne · F
Unplug and get off Facebook.
Silentangel · 26-30, F
@LyricalOne I wish I could but my work relies on Facebook. I am considering in being on Etsy only now
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
online, I could care less... mute/block, etc. them, problem solved. If they're stupid enough to contact me directly and/or track me down in person; I have plenty of ways to make them regret that they ever knew me...
Silentangel · 26-30, F
@wildbill83 revenge isn't the answer though
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
@Silentangel I never said revenge...
SW-User
I deleted my fb profile for this kind of reason

The person still found me here but doesn't contact me directly just let's me know he's around being a creepy fecker
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I would file a restraining order and print everything out and document it all.
Silentangel · 26-30, F
@Keepitsimple I was considering it and I've told my family about it as they know she hassled us still. But it's a first she sent a friend request to my own mother!
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Everybody should block her and document then.@Silentangel
xixgun · M
Close all social media accounts.

 
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