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On a date do you show the real you or the better version of yourself?

Effloresce · 26-30, F
Show up in a dinosaur costume and let them decide
@Effloresce 🖤😘💋
Effloresce · 26-30, F
I hope not 😆@popmol
Effloresce · 26-30, F
SW-User
I'm always me.
But what people see depends on how close they are to me.
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User not if you come here its quite cold xd
SW-User
@popmol Ah... fair enough
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User well whatever you decide :)
Real me. Rather give all the crazy up front.
@popmol always ^•^
popmol · 22-25, M
@DancingStarGoddess lovely :) presentation is key!
@popmol I agree completely
Dusty101 · F
I showed the real me!
Can't fake a better version as it wouldn't be me!
popmol · 22-25, M
@Dusty101 you are the best :) there is nothing better then you!
Dusty101 · F
@popmol I wouldn't go that far!
The date didn't last long usually because I would be chatting too much and knowing to many people around the bars!
When I went on my first date with Dave he brought me to a secluded bar on a boat! 😁
popmol · 22-25, M
@Dusty101 haha he knew how to work you :) well i would enjoy your company i love listening and i can talk loads when i start but i'm always rusty wit hthe start. so listening would be a pure joy!
SweetMae · 70-79, F
I can't remember that far back.
popmol · 22-25, M
@SweetMae you didn't have any recent dates?
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@popmol I have been married to the only person I dated for 45 years.
popmol · 22-25, M
@SweetMae then it has been quite a time :)
KaiserSolze · 46-50, F
A version dunno about better 😂
popmol · 22-25, M
@KaiserSolze about better? doesn't sound super positive?
KaiserSolze · 46-50, F
@popmol I just be me, I think, but probably am not me because it's scary. So it's probably different but not necessarily better.
popmol · 22-25, M
@KaiserSolze ooh interesting :)
I don’t know how to be anybody else.
popmol · 22-25, M
@DarkHeaven well find a gal who is a planetary size extinguisher :) that fits for you!
@popmol 🦋
popmol · 22-25, M
@DarkHeaven if i was fireproof i could at least help with a hug but since i'm not i'll give you a virtual one :) 🤗
SW-User
I'm just me. I suppose I would try to be a little more polite and shit. 😄
SW-User
@popmol 😁
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User that wouldn't even be neccesary for me i would just jump into your arms!
SW-User
@popmol Awwww hehe
TheCoolestCat · 31-35, M
people would run a mile if they found out i had schizophrenia on the first date, better to lie and ease it in over time
popmol · 22-25, M
@TheCoolestCat mmh interesting i'll keep that in mind.
Dateless · 26-30, M
I don’t associate my self with anyone who believes I should act or change because of them.

It’s unrealistic
popmol · 22-25, M
@Dateless impressive!
crystaleagle · 31-35, M
I used to show a better version, now I don't care anymore ..
popmol · 22-25, M
@crystaleagle has that helped?
crystaleagle · 31-35, M
@popmol While it made me more comfortable, some didn't like it.. I was getting a lot of success when I was adjusting to fit the criteria of another person .. if you're looking for a hookup it's fine .. but if you're looking for a keeper it's not fun later on .. I do look for long term relationships so it's uncomfortable for me ..
Wishingwellguy · 46-50, M
I think honestly is the policy , not always successful of cause
popmol · 22-25, M
@Wishingwellguy well probably not
SW-User
Everyone puts a show on. It's nature
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User i'm sorry but i don't put up my butt and start doign a weird dance like those freak birds!
SW-User
@popmol that's not what I heard 😉
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User what did you hear and from who?
SW-User
I show the real me. Just a lot more nervous. Lol.
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User haha thats waht i would do xD
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popmol · 22-25, M
@SageAdvice what are you a black hole? or just invisible?
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popmol · 22-25, M
@SageAdvice ooh :(
SW-User
The better version of me
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User why?
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popmol · 22-25, M
@RyanUK impressive!
Synyster · 51-55, M
It's the real me all the time, what you see is what you get.
Spinner · 61-69, M
I’m more reserved. I don’t want to put them off so soon 😂

 
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