If you were single and pregnant would you try to find someone to take care of you and the baby?

[quote]single and pregnant[/quote]
Don't do that.

[quote]try to find someone to take care of you and the baby[/quote]
What kind of man willingly pays for another [irresponsible] man's baby when he could have kids of his own?

Can I give some advice ? -- OK.... if one is preggo one should make plans to take care of the baby on her own and dont waste time finding a provider. The future mom should be thinking of the kid's welfare and her happiness. A man is just going to add heartache and a major headache to someone's happiness. The future mom in my opinion would be happier in the short and long run.
And to save grief - no man would date a woman who is preggo or that has an infant - it hard enough raising a kid no need to cloud yourself with dealing with 2 kids.
Oh BTW men have a tendency to get women preggers/

Nope. Hopefully I'll be married before ever having a baby.

I’d abort it

Absolutely not. That fantasy of having a guy come to my rescue, is unrealistic.

Allow yourself (you as in general)time to bond with your baby. Gettting to know yourself as a mom, for right now. Having a relationship in that situation can complicate things. Plus it’s never a good idea to have somebody you just met around your baby.

No.
But that is easy to say as i am neither single or pregnant.
My reason however, is that I don't like knights in shining armour. The Armour hides all their flaws and cracks - they are most always broken people who need you more than you need them. They need more care than your child will.
Plus, as a bonus!! If they do not feel needed they will seek someone else to save as soon as things are comfortable for them to do so.

No I'd do it alone

Yes good luck.

would it not make sense to wait until the baby is born ,even then its not easy im not sure how many young men are looking for pregnant young woman to date. 🤔

How far away from me are you? PM me if you don't want to say publicly. Privacy assured. I'd date a pregnant girl if we were otherwise compatible.

i'd rather get a job and have my family help me raise the baby than depend on some random dude

naw, imma find a job online

That seldom ends well for women

Best Wishes. :)

Be careful. You can set yourself up with a dependency you can't easily escape.