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If your supposed best friend got a new best friend would you start distancing yourself from them?

All I ever see is them posting pictures together hanging out and it is upsetting. I guess I'll just go away
SW-User
Just look for the signs. Is he inviting you out a lot less than he used to? Does it seems he now spends way more time with them? If so then i'm sorry but you know your answer. I had a best friend completely halt all contact with me for a month and each time I checked in on her, she was out with her new bestie. I distanced myself from them and they didn't notice and I would do it again. These kinds of situations are tragic.
Addictedtoglamour · 31-35, M
@SW-User that is the exact situation
SW-User
@Addictedtoglamour I know it must hurt. I'm sorry. Stand strong. 🤗
kayoshin · 36-40, M
Lol jealousy is a monster indeed, also it doesn't make sense: if you're a good friend you want your friend to be happy, not only to be happy when you're around. Just be happy for him and join the fun it's friendship not marriage it doesn't have to be a monogamy.
Addictedtoglamour · 31-35, M
@kayoshin I mean he can have other friends it's not about that it's about feeling not wanted anymore
kayoshin · 36-40, M
@Addictedtoglamour and did he tell you he doesn't want you anymore? Nope it was jealousy that makes you feel that.
Addictedtoglamour · 31-35, M
@kayoshin no but I just feel that way because he is always with them
WildHeart · 41-45, F
My best friend used to have plenty other friends and I had no issues with this but when she started betraying me and treating me poorly, I realized that she changed. She is no longer the person I once knew
WildHeart · 41-45, F
@Addictedtoglamour Just like another user said, if she is planning fun times out but not inviting you then this is enough reason to let go of her. I recently went through something similar. It still hurts!
Addictedtoglamour · 31-35, M
@WildHeart that's the reason I cancelled my party because he invited her without asking me first and I wasnt having it
WildHeart · 41-45, F
@Addictedtoglamour I am sorry, if you ever need to vent I can lend a listening ear
Eternity · 26-30, M
Nigga pull yourself together. You are a man; you're built for bad weather! If Joe ain't fucking with you, go hang out with Mitch. Don't waste the day crying. That's gay. Dont be a bitch.
Addictedtoglamour · 31-35, M
@Eternity newsflash I am gay
Eternity · 26-30, M
@Addictedtoglamour oh I didnt know. Feel free to cry then. Sorry bro.
AkAtSUki · F
If you are no longer being invited then I would suggest to distance from them. That's what I would do.
Addictedtoglamour · 31-35, M
@AkAtSUki We are supposed to hang out on wednesday but all of a sudden I feel a cold coming on
AkAtSUki · F
Maybe that happened for a reason.
Aww my bff has other bffs but i dont mind.. Probly becauae i live like 400 miles away and never see her irl anymore anyway?

Just be happy for them? :)
Chap0406 · 41-45, F
Are you sure it's not just a really good friend! You can have more then one bestie
Addictedtoglamour · 31-35, M
@Chap0406 no I'm positive I am officially replaced. I don't even get called bestie anymore when he hangs out with me and he never puts pics of us up together
Chap0406 · 41-45, F
@Addictedtoglamour so if you want pics take some or maybe mention it!
xixgun · M
People change and move on.
They changed, you get to move on.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
Maybe get new friends. You have a lot to offer, James.
Aw
Addictedtoglamour · 31-35, M
@silentkillx2 I really hate my life sometimes

 
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