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Why do i always lend money to people who never give it back on time, or in full.

Then complain when I ask about it.
Cant wait until October then I'll have nothing to do with you. ✌
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
Both of my sisters do that. They call me annoying for asking for my money back. It takes them months to pay me back.
SeductiveCactus · 26-30, F
@butterfly1013 Haha it's literally my sister. I told her I needed the money back by yesterday. Then she told me that she'll have it by this morning. Now its 'idk when I'll have it'
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
@SeductiveCactus My oldest sister literally took a year to pay me back one time. I Babysit for her and she went awhile without paying me at all .. so much to the point where she ended up giving me $300.00 all at once finally.
GoodoldBob · 61-69, M
Because you are caring and generous and people matter more to you than dollars do
SeductiveCactus · 26-30, F
@GoodoldBob well not at the moment. I need the money so I can go to school aha.
GoodoldBob · 61-69, M
@SeductiveCactus But the people still matter to you more than the money.
Hmmm just wait till you have kids..Hahaha
SW-User
That's why I don't ever lend money to anyone.
I start with small loans and I don't ask for the money back. When they come to ask for more money I just say NO you didn't pay me back last time. It only takes $20 to see what kind of person someone is.
you are legally allowed to kill people who don't pay you back.
SeductiveCactus · 26-30, F
@GlueGun I dont think that's true Haha. But I wish
Chickie · F
My family does this shit with me and they wonder why I am stingy with my money
SeductiveCactus · 26-30, F
@Chickie RIGHT.
Like I'm a student, anything I give you I expect to have back, otherwise i cant afford shit when I need it.
Chickie · F
@SeductiveCactus Right, I don't have a career just yet and I am working pay check to pay check.

I don't mind supporting my family but now I don't want to anymore because they don't seem very supportive unless they are in the mood for it's common courtesy to help someone else out when you've help them I've have strangers that helped me more than my blood.

 
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