does one ever get comfortable being lonely? how so?

@Sadwithasmile well aren't you a nice boi? But I live in India and cognac isn't that accessible or cheap here... So there's that

@blasphemy666 gimme a visit, we can sit upside down on the coach and talk about our boy troubles while slurping alcohol.

@Sadwithasmile sounds like a plan to me 👍

@Prisoner69 but what if you do wanna make friends but you're an introvert and you don't really like the people you do get to meet. And not because you've high standards at all, but because you're just not compatible

@blasphemy666 that's a social skill related problem.

I had that problem but it more or less lies in tolerating them. People are full of bullshit so to keep up
and maintain relationshipd youu gotta tolerate them.


Secondly , tolerating these people will allow you to expand your social circle more and meet people you truly enjoy being with(yes it's possible)

@Prisoner69 hmm it sounds right in theory. I just broke up with my bestfriend of 7 year. I think I'm afraid of giving people the impression that i care about them when I'm just being friendly and i really don't know how to maintain boundaries. So it's either me having 0 interaction with anyone or me letting them get all into my life too much too soon.

Start doing things by yourself more like going to the movies etc then it gets easier

@SW-User i think practicing detachment would be the start but I'm too shallow and too naive

@SW-User yeah... I've been eating alone and i didn't even notice...