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fazer1k · 56-60, M
If you cheated on your wife, and she had no idea, being honest could get you in a lot of trouble, so yes. People [i]should[/i] always be honest, of course - if honesty gets them into trouble it will only be because they said or did something wrong (in the eyes of that person) in the first place.
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fazer1k · 56-60, M
@SW-User Good luck with your mother. If you think she is being unfair perhaps talking it through (calmly) with her would help. Is this happening because your mother doesn't believe what you tell her, or is it that she does believe you but thinks it was wrong anyway (even if you don't think it was wrong). If it's because she doesn't believe you that's a tough one to get around and maybe you need someone else to back you up and confirm that you are being truthful. If she believes what you say but thinks it was wrong then it sounds as though you both need to revisit and understand the boundaries better. I don't know your exact circumstances but while you are reliant on your mother, and especially if you are a minor, she will have the right to set reasonable boundaries.
fazer1k · 56-60, M
@SW-User I didn't think you were a minor - just considering the possibility as not everyone is truthful about their age.
I feel for you there - kind of insulting not to be believed, especially by your own mother. You ought to be able to do pretty much whatever you like at 20, I would have thought! Good luck, anyway. 🙂
I feel for you there - kind of insulting not to be believed, especially by your own mother. You ought to be able to do pretty much whatever you like at 20, I would have thought! Good luck, anyway. 🙂
MasterDvdC · 61-69, M
@MasterDvdC like what? No sex?🤔
MasterDvdC · 61-69, M
@Stark If you have to ask that you've never been married.
NickiHijab · F
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Straylight · 31-35, F
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
Of course. It can even put you in legal jeopardy. You can be convicted of perjury if you tell the truth but someone else lies and the judge believes the liar.
@hippyjoe1955 🤷🏽♀️ Either way, I’d stand my ground. I know people are falsely accused many times but I wouldn’t lie not to say I don’t ever lie but in a legal/law situation I wouldn’t.
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
@Stark Did you even read what I wrote? Are you capable of reading? Is your comprehension above that of an average 5 year old? Where did I ever suggest anyone should lie?
@hippyjoe1955 nope, so it’s pointless continuing to argue.
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
@SW-User the truth 99% of the time hurts someone else.
Andrew19EightyFive · 36-40, M
NickiHijab · F
If people can’t take it sure. I remember getting called a “back biter” because I told a cousin of mine what annoyed me about her. She asked for the truth but once she got it she called a back biter which is childish to say the very least lol.
KaysHealingPath · 36-40, F
SW-User
Yes, especially if you volunteer to be honest where keeping your mouth shut would be a better option for both.
MasterDvdC · 61-69, M
Definitely! Answering truthfully when your wife asks "does this make me look fat" can get you in a LOT of
Graciebaby · F
Gets me in trouble all the time.
Graciebaby · F
@Stark people don't like the truth.
Try it some time.
Try it some time.
@Graciebaby I try it all the time but I don’t think it ever gets me in trouble.
Graciebaby · F
Yeah, yourve never had a wife and had to endure her constant reiteration of a point you said 3 weeks ago in truth that you should have lied through your back teeth for a lil peace.
You will learn.
You will learn.
Classified · M
Let's just say I'm happy people can't read my thoughts. 😇
LireaSemaji · 26-30, F
With my mom yes but that's what she taught me
@LireaSemaji 😬
Rokasu · 36-40, M
But liars run the world.
Carver · 31-35, F
It can [b]always[/b] get you in trouble.
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
Every single day.
SW-User
It does with my parents
ZenKitzune · F
Of course
bijouxbroussard · F