So my father happens to be "Afraid" of me...

I heard him talking to my mother about it a couple moments ago.(Though I've known this because they've talked about it before...) and like how is that tbh? Like he says I get angry when he talks/yells at me...like NO shit you are like the the grumpiest person on this planet, sorry not sorry. (it's true, even my mom knows he has anger issues and or is just very unreasonable when it comes to things.) I mean I heard the words "I'm scared he's gonna end up hitting me or going crazy on me..." umm umm excuse me i have never hit you like that have i, and I'm not going to say I have never hit him but cause i have...but not soely out of anger. I mean this man sometimes likes to annoy his children by fighting or having scuffles with them, so yeah its gonna happen if you do that. What im trying to say though, is the only reason I'm angry or snippy most of the times is because you made me that way tbh. Like what do you expect when your the most unreasonable and grouchy person on this planet? Dude I mean at times he gets so mad that at times he says things like " I swear to god If you don't shut up right now im gonna hit you." I mean you've threatened me before...and I have never threatened to hit you ever. He just let's his anger overcome him, like i remember once he got so mad that I kept trying to explain to him that I was talking to my little brother about something and not him...and he just kinda stood there with a sorta red and angry face, saying "Shut up, shut up, shut up..." Like honestly....your worse than me, I have like never gotten that angry ever in my life...and you think I'm the problem😤😒