Is there a user you've been meaning to message but just can't for some reason?

No, I generally do it if I feel like it.

not really, no. i don't tend to send messages to anyone directly. i don't mind them from people i've spoken to enough here in q&a before though if they're not rambling on about sex or just giving me awkward random one word feedback. if they're messaging rather they had something to speak about.

No.
I rarely have anything to say unless someone asks me things.

Nope, I don't send a lot of messages but generally contact who I want to contact.

No, strict policy of not going there.

In two minds

no

No I make sure to at least say hi, although there are people who I'd like to speak more to but can't for private reasons.