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My father is such an angry person!

Literally started hounding me today about if I was gonna give him $5 for the earphones he bought me (i did not tell him to buy me anything but he went and bought them anyway...) and I literally told him yesterday I did not have change and he said it was ok and to just give what I had so he could give me change, so I pulled a 20 and held it to him...then he go's and tells me to put it away and to give him $5 some other time when I have change. Then Finally this morning he gos hounding me "So when are you going to give me $5 dollars for the headphones?" And I won't lie raised my voice and said "I told you already I don't have change, we went over this..." and he go's and gets mad about me raising my voice when he literally asked me this yesterday and I was gonna give him the 20 but he didn't want it.....he even started saying "I'm going to call the police and tell them how you yell at me..." and I tell him a couple times to please calm down and he just escalates it. 馃槨馃槫 like really?! After that I just went and decided that I rather not have the earphones because of this and I just placed them on his table.
SW-User
"Yes, 911? My son is yelling at me!!"
Cooper802Forever22-25, M
@SW-User yes exactly...馃槄
SW-User
@Cooper802Forever Lol, I'm sorry your father is a drama queen. Mine is too.
Cooper802Forever22-25, M
@SW-User gosh...you even said what I told him a bit after, I called him "princess" after this and he just got butthurt and just got angrier, he just went up to me and said "Look here idiot, watch your mouth!"....馃槫
LyricalOneF
Maybe his hemorrhoids are acting up. 馃槙
Butterflykisses2451-55, F
you didn't ask for them they are to be considered a gift no money exchange necessary.
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Cooper802Forever22-25, M
@DollyLand wish it was also that easy, whenever I attempt to apologize to him and all that he stays angry tbh...
Eddiesolds61-69, M
@Cooper802Forever my father is a real hard ass also.I know what you're saying.sorry to hear it!
Eddiesolds61-69, M
Just go get the 5 bucks.enjoy your earphones.
patkaren171736-40, M
Give your old man his 5 dollars.
coolboy8636-40, M
parents can be bullies
caccoon36-40
Ridiculous behaviour from a grown man, in my opinion. I hope you can move out soon. :/
caccoon36-40
@Cooper802Forever Hmm, I'm not sure about that. I've never actually had a partner meet my parents because I live so far from them, and they often have no idea about people I'm dating or whatever. I tell them eventually, but I only talk to them a few times a year. They're still there for me and stuff, and I for them, but we don't get along that well, so my life is just my own now.

The only thing I can say, from my experience, is that it will make you feel guilty, and if you ever do have trouble, you might have no one to fall back on. And then if they do help you out, you might feel pretty bad about it.

I don't know and I don't want to tell you what to do, but I'd say when you do move out, give yourself some space from them, but keep in contact. It's kind of amazing how your relationship can change after you've moved out, and you can interact as adults. Just feel it out, I guess? If you still wanted to cut them out of your life at that point, you can at any time. But I know some of my friends have mentioned that their relationships with their parents were better after they moved out, as was mine, AND often it takes a lot of stress off of them, having their kids be a little more self-reliant. This is just from my experience though, so I don't know how much of this is true or will apply to your situation.

I hope that makes sense!
Cooper802Forever22-25, M
@caccoon thanks it does...they just honestly wanna make me move away to far away place away from them...but I'll see what I find is right when time comes...
caccoon36-40
@Cooper802Forever I understand that feeling! But maybe just being out of the house will help a lot and you can just touch base with them every week, or less. Good luck! :)
tenente100+, M
maybe he needs more estrogen 馃

 
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