Do i have to chat in msgs ? One person called me cold person because i told him i prefer to be...

Aydao · 26-30, M

I think that person just got butthurted because you dont wanna please his needs,a typical jerk that only cares about himself.

SW-User

Some people will try and guilt-trip you for attention but that’s just a sign that you should avoid them.

SW-User

Not if you dont want to, its peoples individual preference

Faust76 · 46-50, M

Well, different strokes for different people, BUT calling someone a cold person on basis of that is pretty jerky thing to do, and perhaps were wishing for some "hot" chat...

SW-User

Hope you blocked him. It's your choice to do what you want to on here. It's nobody's business what you do or don't do on here.

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

People get butt hurt when you won’t talk about doing the horizontal with them🤷🏻‍♀️

whateverhappens · 26-30, F

girl i say the same thing, just ignore em

MushroomFaerie

People are weird. I talked to someone once and then got bored and didn't message back then they sent a message like I had hurt them and I wasn't nice. Yeah that's really gonna make me want to talk to you. Loser

SapphicHeart · F

Nope. You decide for yourself how you want to stay here, and who to talk with when and where, if at all. I hope you're aware that you can filter the messages.

Mordi · 31-35, M

Yes, it's in the site's Terms of Service. Must send at least 10 private messages every day or your account will be deleted.

Beetlejuice68 · 51-55, M

How is that being cold? I say you are just being specific. Some people on here have way too many power/control issues!

Memike · 26-30, M

Its not being cold its more fun to read stories and ask questions then chat

Miram · 31-35, F

such an emotional dependency from his part, over an online interaction.

ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

What you have to do is to be comfortable and enjoy... No more, no less .. so get to it ;)

JustLikeGreta · F

No one has to chat in msgs. This is entirely up to you.

SW-User

It's completely up to you

SW-User

Lol 😂 so your a cold person because you won’t private message a STRANGER online ? Lmao 😂 Yep I prefer questions and group re conversation. If people don’t get that then they can jog on and I’ll still sleep like a baby lol 😁