I have a dilemma. I found out something about my dead grandpa, regarding my mom, from my granny the other day, so...

@RubySoo Thank you. I'll probably just never speak of it. ANd hopefully forget.

@Dan193 obviously I don't know what the issue is. I wonder why your grandmother decided to confide in you? I wonder if she's carried it a long time and decided to unburden herself....or....did she feel it important you should know? Did you know your grandfather? Did you have good memories of him?


Feel free to message me if you want to discuss things further Dan. 🤗

@RubySoo He died before I was born. Tbh I find it difficult to call him that, since I never knew him. But it was said in a convo/story she was telling me. I visit her often, since she's alone. I go, just so she could have somebody to talk to from time to time.

@SapphicHeart I didn't even think of that, that she might already know of it. Or that my granny just keeps it in for a reason. That's so true. Just like 5thapprentice said, if anyone should tell my mom is my granny.

@Dan193
Yes.

@SimplyTracie yeah maybe, because that one was just a small thing. But once she told me like really messed up stuff that my grandpa did. But whatever.

ok, not messed up, but just wrong. Don't want to unnecessarily portray him as a monster xP

@Dan193 Then you should be silent. 🙂

@marsbar That's true. Thanks

@Dan193 Sure :)

@SW-User Idk that's why I asked the Q

@Dan193 If you can't answer that there's no point.

@SW-User alright

@5thApprentice Exactly. I'd want to know too, but at the same time.. past is the past. Right.

@Dan193 To be fair if anyone should tell your mum it should come from your granny.

@5thApprentice True, thanks.

@Miram I see

@Dan193 YW

@JohnOinger Btw you forgot to capitalize all the words in your answer ))

@Dan193 oh LOL