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For how long do you crush on people? How long does it usually last for you?

before it either fades away or it evolves into love?
moonchild · F
Some crushes never go away. And never turn into love.
When you see that person even after years the crush can still be as strong.
I have one that when we run into each other I am instantly 17 again.

Lol
But it's how he's always made me feel. And I love it.
Lol except for the giggling...can't seem to help that.
main thing to remember...
NEVER screw a crush...
Totally ruins it forever.
moonchild · F
@PurpleHearts absolutely!!!
A crush is different from love.
It's innocent and something you can't help.
Doesn't mean you wanna be with that person just that their soul and yours connect for a second... Crushes are special..
Husbands are too....but then you have to do their laundry. Lol
moonchild · F
@RubySoo 2years ago me and another friend of his pulled up at his work... He had to walk a little ways to get to my truck... But he seemed to walk with a different determination....
When he got to us my door was open and he came right next to me and said
Don't get mad.....and KISSSSSED me deeply .
I was in shock.
He said I've been wanting to do that for 35 years.

Aaaaaaaahhhhhh. Lol

I got real tongue tied... All I could get out was a breathless DAMN!! don't wait 35 more years.

Best kiss I've ever had...
Hence the giggling.
Lol
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@moonchild that's wonderful....one of my stories is about my experience with my special ' crush' if u want to read it x
nedkelly · 61-69, M
38 plus years and still going
Zoranna · F
@nedkelly Think that's just a tad more than a "crush" you've got going there Ned. God I love you! hehe
LittleUnicorn · 26-30
Uhm, I tend to get little crushes multiple times but that last like days or weeks. But I've had crushes that have lasted like 3 years and nope, they never evolved into love
PurpleHearts · 22-25, F
@LittleUnicorn hopefully it does at some point
SW-User
I can crush on someone for weeks. I've been getting better at keeping myself from developing feelings too quickly though.
Zoranna · F
I don't "crush". I'm a little deeper than that, thankfully.
SW-User
@Zoranna Lucky you XP my mind convinces itself that it is deeper than that, but it rarely is.
Zoranna · F
@SW-User That's what youth is all about. Enjoy yourself, that's the main thing, but be kind with it. :-)
SW-User
@Zoranna Haha all I want is something deeper than that. I want that in the worst way.
Sonata · 22-25, F
Crushes last a few months
I feel cursed lol.
PurpleHearts · 22-25, F
@Sonata must've been a love spell
RubySoo · 56-60, F
My crushes can last forever....x
PurpleHearts · 22-25, F
@RubySoo nice
plungesponge · 41-45, M
I have only fallen in love once, and as far as I can see it lasted the rest of my life. That was a few lifetimes ago though
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Entire seconds but it feels like a lifetime
TheOtakuNextDoor · 26-30, M
I've had a crush on someone since 2008.
PurpleHearts · 22-25, F
@TheOtakuNextDoor it means that you need to improve yourself then. Find out your weak points and improve them. If you can't, then strengthen another quality that will overbear and cover up your weak points, you know what I mean..
TheOtakuNextDoor · 26-30, M
@PurpleHearts I've been doing that, but you can't just cover up weirdness, it'll always be a part of me. If no one accepts that, I'm fine being alone, I've been experiencing it for 24 years now anyway.
PurpleHearts · 22-25, F
@TheOtakuNextDoor it means that you need to improve yourself then. Find out your weak points and improve them. If you can't, then strengthen another quality that will overbear and cover up your weak points, you know what I mean..
It seems to always be there once it starts.... Never goes away
Sepia · 36-40, F
Sometimes a lifetime 😹
mathsman · 70-79, M

 
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