I think I'm with avoidant with friends.

As long as I'm here I'll probably stalk your posts. No worries. 😜

Hmm, truly there is always going to be a time when conversation might get boring or there seems to be nothing to talk about. The real test of how long your relationship lasts is based more so on that person's dedication to you and your dedication to them. I'm not there to entertain them with conversation topics, and they understand that. One of my friends happens to be very quiet and withdrawn but we still talk every single day without delay(for the past 10 months, even if it's not on a particular subject and it's small talk)

Some people need to have more patience for some people if they want to be friends with a person who is afraid of getting close to people. That's alright, it just requires a dedicated person who really likes you. Don't try to change yourself and don't give up in finding a person like that, just keeping moving on to another person when one doesn't fit, that's all you can do. Don't get stuck in grief if someone leaves you, it just wasn't meant to be. The more you weed out those that don't fit what you want, the faster you get closer to finding that one person who fits you just right.

I have the same difficulty. I want to stay friends with people, but I know that people do not want to be friends with me. We drift apart and I give up.