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How do YOU make friends here?

Do you PM people you've never spoken with? Do you add and PM at the same time? Do you add people you've interacted with on a post?
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
I don't know...leave me alone. 😫
Repete · 61-69, M
All of the above probably me i usually chat with someone on one of the posts, check profile then decide if I want to chat with a pm or what ever happens from there. It's easier for me in some ways because lm not looking for anything past chat
SW-User
I reply to posts.
Once someone starts responding to my posts, I see it as a positive sign.
Eventually there may be a PM depending upon circumstances.
After a bit, if I feel comfortable with them, I add them.
SaraTG · 51-55, T
I don't think there are a set of rules. If I see a profile I like, I'll browse their posts until you find one to reply to. You'll probably start chatting after that. Well, that's how I do it but I've found that guys find my profile then they send me a PM telling me what they'd like to do to me and they'll also send me a pic of their body part that will be doing it.
Sara
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LucyCan · 26-30, F
@TheeOriginalEXLover In general.
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DanielChristensen · 46-50, M
By feel and circumstances. No particular prevalance of method
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
I usually get to know people in the Q&A and then add them to my friends list and then PM with them. But sometimes if you have something Id like to say to them I’ll PM them first. I’ve made a few friends from them randomly PMing me(usually they say my About Me is why they reached out) without me ever seeing them before
LucyCan · 26-30, F
@JRVanguard Sounds right.
Nat15 · F
Mostly it's people I've interacted with in a post. If we seem to have similar thoughts or ways of feeling about things, then I might see if they wanna be friends.

Sometimes it works out, and some times it doesn't. 🤗
SW-User
I've only made one here, and it was because the person messaged first. I don't actively look to make friends here, I just use the site to pass time, if I make a friend or two here, then so be it.
SW-User
I haven't successfully done that yet. On EP, I just told jokes, and that seemed to earn me one friend. As for PM, I can't really stand them.
awhitedot · 46-50, M
@SW-User Yup! Make 'em laugh and friends appear.
LucyCan · 26-30, F
@SW-User Drat! I was going to redirect my PMs to you.
crystalkid · 56-60, T
Occasionally I will pm someone I’ve never spoken with based on their posts or groups. Sometimes I’ll add after interact8ng on a post, sometimes even before that. I guess it varies 🙂
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bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
Uuuuuuuh.... usually i comment some dawg's posts..... Then eventually i get a pm and it goes from there...... ┬┴┬┴┤•ᴥ•ʔ
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DesiDudeJ04 · 26-30, M
If you wanna then we wanna too. If we wanna but you don't wanna then it's okay
Repete · 61-69, M
Looks like you've gotten a lot of replies hope you've found what you wanted .🙂
Fran63 · 56-60, M
Depending. I've not made many on here mostly interact in posts first then add
cloudi · 36-40, F
All started from interactions from the posts.
LucyCan · 26-30, F
@cloudi Same
Madelenie · 26-30, F
Just pm, we don't need to be in pm to be friends on here
Bluesky53 · 61-69, M
I PM if I see a lot in commen,i add if there's enough intereaction,
SW-User
i only talk ppl in posts. i don't do pm 🤷
SW-User
poorly. or perhaps I don't.
awhitedot · 46-50, M
Interact and then add.
LucyCan · 26-30, F
@awhitedot Me too. Through posts- not PMs.
MethDozer · M
Just kinda banter and act like an ass on the boards and every now and then you start chain replying with someone who isn't batshit crazy and mental. That often leads to a few small talk PMs or Pm links to other things. Then viola, follow them and an online friendship is made.

It's kind of hard here though becauser 95% are fucking mental and not worth being serious in discussion with.

 
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