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Important question for all the men on here?

[b][c=#800055]Does the whole treat them mean keep them keen work?[/c][/b][b][c=#002673]I know this sounds crazy but every time I'm mean to my boyfriend he listens when I'm nice he ignores me, of course it's not in my nature to be a meanie but it gets the message through [/c][/b]Okay guys I think I asked this question back in EP I just don't remember the responses that I got.

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kartoffelkopf2 · 36-40, M

If a woman is mean you just need to sort her out. Make her squirt and it all fades away. It’s more fun when a woman is mean however so it is best to not be too nice

RadiantRuby

@kartoffelkopf2 I think it slightly turns him on when I'm bring mean. Like this morning I slammed the car door and stormed of mumbling swear words under my breath( he called me and I ignored him walking briskly)then he got out the car and followed me. Lol I'm so bad at it it's cute. I can't swear out loud.

kartoffelkopf2 · 36-40, M

@RadiantRuby play fights can certainly spice up a car journey to work

quietlitany · 36-40, M

In the beginning, a little. Just stand your ground and treat them like another person in class or work, don't give in to your desire to please them in every way. You don't have to be mean per se. Just don't kiss their ass. Spoil them at strategic points, like birthdays. Women want a tameable savage and in my experience the taming process varies in length from woman to woman. They do get bored and they do shop for better deals. Relationships are an evolution process, so make sure you're matching up with her goals, short and long. If she doesn't have those, you're basically on borrowed time. Good luck.

RadiantRuby

@quietlitany Thanks for responding, I think the fella was used to alot of ass kissing in his past relationships! Not me sorry!

Elegy · 46-50

If used judiciously sure. If you're mean all the time though... good bye. Unless he likes it that way.

biandlargeny · 56-60, M

It's a an evolved sociology trait. Men are naturally the providers an caretakers. If their woman is upset them they will effort to make them happy. It is only when things are smooth and grocery the modernized mean will get complacent.

RadiantRuby

@biandlargeny so your saying being mean is how things get done basically?

biandlargeny · 56-60, M

No it works up to a point. There will come a time when the"fuck this shit" genre will realize and they move on. It's a useful tool to get what you want but if over used will push him out. You can offset it's use with a spontaneous blow job.... Lol

ConanTheLibrarian · 36-40, M

Why do you want to change and manipulate him? I think you need to reassess your idea of love.

Sapio · 46-50, M

I admit I like a woman with an attitude and sometimes I try to bring it out in them. It's kinda sexy when a woman asserts herself. But I don't dare push it too far.

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