Do narcissists ever really care about another but blame them if things don't work out?

@Zoranna ALWAYS.

HE HAD NICKNAME: HURRICANE 😒😠!!!

@LunadelobosIAMTHEDRAGON I hope he wasn't proud of it. 🙄

@Zoranna I do not think he knew of it.

But I think if he would have know,
I can imagine him being [u]not[/u] unhappy...

@LunadelobosIAMTHEDRAGON It's heartbreaking how they can fool people so completely. :-( Thanks for posting the clip, I shall definitely watch it later. I do hope you find someone who deeply and sincerely cares for you soon, you deserve it.

@Zoranna Thanks dear. (((Hugs))) I wish that for all of us :) !

Yes.
It is alarming and it's TERRIFYING the statistics...
Psychopaths are so convincing, they even fool specialists.

It's in the clip.

Hugs, Luna. 🤗🌺👭

@LunadelobosIAMTHEDRAGON You're very welcome. :-) 🤗 🥂

@Zoranna Looks only get one's foot in the door. Then it's personality that counts. For shy prospective partners with not great self confidence, looks can actually count against you...

@walabby Yes I agree, she's relying too much on her looks but she's too young to have the experiences she professes she has. By the way though, I'm not that bad in that score either hehe. Thank you Mum! hehe But looks are definitely not a good criteria, pity most don't see that. I'm not shy, just reserved but confident in who I am. You are too, I can tell. Good onya. 🥂

@Zoranna Good on you too.. :) It's how one handles one's good looks that shows character... I suspect that your character is way better than adequate.. ;)

@SW-User Yep. I can't understand how people can be like that but they are.

@Zoranna their brains have been wired like that for a number of reasons and through experiences while growing up.

@Allelse Yep, you got that right.

My mother, older sister and father are ones. Ugh. My Dad has some degree of knowledge, not much, but he hates himself for it while hating everyone else for it, blaming them for everything. My sister knows very well what she is and uses it to her advantage and why not? her ability to manipulate, use and cast people off has become a perk to her. While my mother is more your textbook type who doesn't have a bleeding clue and is 'ALWAYs' the victim.

@LunadelobosIAMTHEDRAGON Very true it seems.

@SW-User I don't think they care enough to want you to feel bad, they only care about how they feel.

@Zoranna well I met one that was a manipulator, and very very narcissistic and proud taking off blame from his side...bad mixture

@SW-User I agree they are great manipulators to get what they want.

@SW-User So demeaning and exhausting for the other.

@Zoranna Yeah no doubt. They are in extreme need for attention. But narcissists don't even see that they are one

@dunpender To a "T"!!

@blendednotshaken They sure do!

@amvanquish So true.

@Bastard Haha It's better that you're not though.