A guy asked me to the movies

No don’t do that actually. It could be just to hangout but that could change

It's good to know what you're walking into before you get there

I wouldn't do it, just go if you feel like it and try to lead the situation on your own or try to see where he leads it to. Good luck!

Hmm.... a movie for a first date or hang out is too much for me.
If you really want to kick it with him, then suggest going to eat or a cool hang out where you two can be around active people. Something like an arcade or theme park. It is a busy time for Halloween fun

Yeah, I'd ask him nicely. You need to know and I'm glad you're asking, instead of coming on here and being all like, Is this a date or not? You want to know? You ask.

the friend thing and see where it goes , whats the movie ?

First question should be what movie will be watched.

Does it influence the decision?

ask him if bj is optional

Yeah, you need to know...