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Why does nobody understand that nobody gives a crap about inner beauty?

I don't know how else to keep explaining it to everyone. Go into a public place and look around. You tend to look at the attractive people with outer beauty first right? Ok well that is how life is. You approach someone based on how attractive they look and then you learn about whether or not they have inner beauty after the fact. Inner beauty is revealed after that initial attraction for physical beauty. Physical attraction comes first and always will.

Nearly everyone would agree that what is shown as beautiful is what is beautiful when it comes to physical appearance. Remember my experiment with the two photos?Everyone picked what is known as the beauty standard. The other person fell below that threshold by far and wasn't picked once. That is how the world works and that is where I am coming from. If you do not meet or go above the threshold you might as well kill yourself because you won't have a chance at finding anyone who gives a shit about you
SW-User
The truth is that no one gives a shit about even the beautiful people. The problem is not with our physical looks but the time period we are living in. There is no love on this earth. It only looks like people give a shit about the pretty people. In fact they are only using the beautiful people.
SW-User
@DemonOfNothing have you tried counseling I really understand this feeling and it's our minds that are really our worst enemy
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SW-User
K choose to stay miserable then @DemonOfNothing
Reject · 26-30, M
There's different kinds of beauty, just because most people are slaves to the conventional, that doesn't mean everyone is.
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Reject · 26-30, M
@DemonOfNothing More like 70-80% would be my guess.
SW-User
Jeez we get it. You're butt ugly and the world isn't fair. Tell me something new.
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SW-User
@DemonOfNothing We can only hope.
Bad news for the ugly people I guess.
Thanks for ruining my self esteem
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Summer · 51-55, F
The good news is, that when you get older all of that goes away. The bad news is; you are young and still have to deal with that. I really have no advice other than to give other people grace now that you know what is going on. People are not what they appear to be. The most beautiful person is capable of ripping you to shreds.
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Summer · 51-55, F
@DemonOfNothing I don't agree. I think you are on to something. Knowledge is power. We all get older. What you do with what you learn is all up to you.
SW-User
I'm aware of this. I'm not one of the beautiful people.
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SW-User
@DemonOfNothing Not finally. I've known it my whole life
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ForeverOnMyGuard · 22-25, F
Attractive people always look like douchebags to me
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Quietbeauty21 · 36-40, F
That's when you stop caring what others think or say.
suburbs · 22-25, F
Alrighty. That escalated very quickly.
StepDad2 · 36-40, M
You're way off base with your question. Everyone cares about inner beauty.

You are right about attractiveness. Both ugliness and beauty. Which would catch your eye at first glance? A woman with a smile or a hooded Nazi KKK dude walking towards you.

If I was a handsome dude maybe inner beauty wouldn't matter as much.
SW-User
😂wtf? You know we all get old and ugly eventually right ? Yeah..... sorry to break it to you
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SW-User
Have fun in hell then @DemonOfNothing
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fairone · F
Not everyone has x-ray vision and can see people from the inside out... I wish this could be the case but it simply isn't (for the majority).. Myself I will always say I can see inside u (like an X-ray)!

 
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