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Is flirting on here considered cheating on your lover?

In case, one is flirting just for fun then it's not cheating!

In case, one claims to love someone for real; yet, is flirting with others then that is a cheating for sure.

In case, two love each other and are open about letting each other flirt with others then that is not cheating at all. Being honest with each other is not cheating at all!

Being in love and flirting with others either for casual fun or for real fun is a cheating but it's debatable!...I will not flirt with other women if I really love my woman!...This is my thought-process and view-point!...Choices and opinions vary person to person...☺
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@BRICSruleNATOiscrybaby Your mileage may vary.
@Raythedevil lol!...Good one Sir!...😆👍
No I flirt with lots of people on here. Sometimes my fiancé encourages it. Because then it makes her jealous so she wants to dominate me later on. It's a win win situation. :)
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@MsAnnThropy very caring fiance
justanothername · 51-55, M
@MsAnnThropy You have a very cool fiance :)
Some would be very unhappy if you did. Some might get turned on...
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@SpiritOfSoul... the question is what sort is your lover?
Atrevido1 · 61-69, M
I dobt think so. Many women cant help it and I find it so gracious abd endearing. Men, I dont know.
I would say it depends on the intent. If it bothers your lover, then you should not flirt
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@Atrevido1 Sounds good.
SW-User
It depends on your lover. If he/she is ok with you flirting, you're safe lol.
SW-User
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
matter of opinion.
some even go way over just flirting and dont mind
SW-User
@SpiritOfSoul That's a different story
Lilred2289 · 31-35, F
Women say yes and men say no lol
Lilred2289 · 31-35, F
@SpiritOfSoul and the responses keep proving that point!! omg
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@Lilred2289 It's not entirely that cut & dried.
Lilred2289 · 31-35, F
OKWTF2 · 51-55, M
It can be said that, but in my humble opinion it is also mostly harmless. Some, myself included, wouldn't want our other to read what we may have said, but also have complete confidence that nothing would ever lead to anything more.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@OKWTF2 not totally harmless
OKWTF2 · 51-55, M
@SpiritOfSoul not at all, and generally not a good idea either. Just being honest and I believe we are all flawed, but social animals.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
No point adding to the flaws
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
By some, yes. By others, no.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@sarabee1995 How about you?
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
Depends on the nature of the relationship, but mostly yes.
Sanderilla · 61-69, F
Could be considered that 😉
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Sanderilla i think alike
SailorMarz · F
I wouldn't like it lmao
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@SailorMarz thats poison,Sailor girl!
zerofuks2give · 41-45, M
@SailorMarz *looks down your shirt while you drink* 😏
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@SailorMarz I don't like it either....


I love it!!!
Amylynne · 26-30, F
flirting is not cheating at all
any more than dancing or sharing a meal
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Amylynne if it stays that way!
Amylynne · 26-30, F
yes! but i have often flirted with folks i have no intention of going further with,,
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
Within limits. Sensible
MasterLee · 56-60, M
Yes those nasty electrons moving from shell to shell...disgusting trollops
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@MasterLee unreliable
MasterLee · 56-60, M
@SpiritOfSoul inglorious isotopes
SW-User
Depends on your relationship and what both parties are willing to allow
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@SW-User can be dicey
SW-User
@SpiritOfSoul I don't know if I would always be comfortable with it just because it's a slippery slope,when does the harmless flirting cross the line into mental cheating, where's that line? Hard to say.
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SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
Kindly move your butt off here.
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@GOODbad The better you do it, the closer it is to cheating.
coolnudist · 70-79, M
I wouldn't think that would be!!
As long as it is light flirting on public boards and not going anywhere else we both see no problem with it. 🍀 Flirting is an ego boost and helps one feel attractive so it can actually be sexy if done carefully and non maliciously.
But that is for us personally based on candid discussions & honestly if either of us wasn't comfortable with it we wouldn't do even that. I feel ultimately this is a question about respect and boundaries for your partner & relationship together. I love my wife with everything that I am & even casual, light flirting would never be worth sacrificing the love we enjoy together in our marriage. 🍀
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
To some yes. Not to me
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@GJOFJ3 dicey
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@vetguy1991 I think so too.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
Yes
TheProphet · M
I don't think it is.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@TheProphet alright!
SW-User
Unless it moves beyond the confines of online fantasy, I don't believe it is cheating. My wife is fully aware that I tease and flirt online, not where, not how, not with whom. But as long as it is confined, she is fine with letting me enjoy my fantasy side.
Unloved · 22-25, F
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Unloved risky,i guess
CaptainCanadia · 41-45, M
I wouldn't call flirting cheating, necessarily. But I also don't flirt on here because I know my wife would be uncomfortable with that.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@CaptainCanadia alright!
I don't think so. Flirting can be innocent and just about having fun. When flirting progresses to A point of making a pass at or hitting on someone, then it's getting close to cheating.
SW-User
I would guess it wouldn't be looked at too favorably. I know at least one woman IRL who would be pissed if she saw her bf flirting on a place such as SW.
Pop0159 · 61-69, M
Nope .. .. sharing your mind is not sbaring your body ... ...
Cheating is sharing your body .. .. ..
dmc313 · 36-40, M
Idk but I told you to stop flirting with me before he kills is both.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@dmc313 youre a joker!
pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M
I dont' flirt on here... EVER... and I am absolutely faithful to my Wife...
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
I don't have a lover, but if I did, I might consider it so....
clamenza · 56-60, M
Absolutely not
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@clamenza cant say asbsolutely
clamenza · 56-60, M
As far as I am concerned it's not a
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
your opinion.Okay
OzDiver · 61-69, M
Probably by some, maybe not by others.
SW-User
interesting question...
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@SW-User may be
SW-User
@SpiritOfSoul idk what to say tough situation
zerofuks2give · 41-45, M
Ask your lover
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@zerofuks2give not asking for myself,dammit
zerofuks2give · 41-45, M
@SpiritOfSoul i know lol
CdAshley · 51-55, M
I wouldnt think so.
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Quimliqer · 70-79, M
I hope not!!!
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Quimliqer question doesnt relate to any hope
Badboy · 61-69, M

 
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