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Should I tell my frriend the guy she calls her soulmate is cheating on her?

SW-User
If you do and they stay together you will lose your friend for good because her Husband ( or guy) will make sure of that. Not to mention that he may well turn the table on her and accuse her of wrong doings with you ,her male friend, even if there are no wrong doings. If telling her is more important than your friendship with her, then by all means tell her, but make sure you have the proof you will need..She loves this man she calls her soul mate and will not believe you just on your word.
hlpflwthat · M
Nothing like shattering someone's world to cement a friendship.

Tough call.
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hlpflwthat · M
@Tonka Maybe your friend couldn't be the one to hurt you - doesn't want to be the one to hurt you, because you'll lash out.

Like judging him and calling him a coward. Maybe your friend was right - not a coward.
Tonka · M
@hlpflwthat I never lash out nor did I call him a coward. I said I thought he was a coward And not good friend at all. I actually talked to him like a humanbeing and told him I wished he had told me instead of letting it go on.
Like I said though, to each is own.
hlpflwthat · M
Was just a brain fart - thinking out loud. Not judging you.
ForeverOnMyGuard · 22-25, F
Is it your business? Ive been in a similar situation and honestly I didn't tell anyone anything because it was none of my business. Now the people I care about are happy
@ForeverOnMyGuard if it's supposed to be your friend and someone you know someone is doing something behind their back, that makes it your business. You can't just stand by and say "oh it's fine, doesn't concern me". That's why bad shit keeps happening, because we just let them get away with because it's not our business. Maybe it should be
Oreocookies · 41-45, M
Hmm I would but no one likes to hear bad news
SW-User
Yes. If you don't you are morally culpable.
amvanquish · 51-55, M
She is the one chasing him@SW-User
SW-User
No matter.....choose well, your immortal should depends on it.@amvanquish
SW-User
No let her learn
Aperson · M
@SW-User wth.. how can u sit still when someone is getting betrayed??
SW-User
@Aperson So they can learn on their own
Aperson · M
By suffering??
Goldstein · 100+, M
Do you know for sure?
amvanquish · 51-55, M
Yes I am sure@Goldstein
Goldstein · 100+, M
Then if you think she should, maybe tell him to tell her so it might not be as much of a shock maybe.
amvanquish · 51-55, M
@Goldstein she is a lady who finds it hard to make friends due to trust issues.
cloudi · 36-40, F
Yes. Go easy but tell her. If you do care for her.
firefall · 61-69, M
is she a close friend?
amvanquish · 51-55, M
We were but we have both had our own lives to get on with@firefall
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SW-User
that can go either way.. she could either be thankful or she might feel betrayed and feel like you are trying to drive them apart and you lose your friend.
Yes! The truth may not always be wanted but it's needed
Aperson · M
Is that even a question?

 
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