@bijouxbroussard Same with my mom.

@SW-User I ain't into Pokemon but I get the part about adventure.

@SubstantialKick I mean there's that, but like...even just a casual non-committed relationship. I don't wanna do the stuff that people do in that situation. Go on dates, kiss each other, call each other pet names. That stuff drives me away hard.

@CestManan Ok HARD agree on the part about having a meltdown if they don't text back immediately. My sister sent me a meme one time that was like "That moment when you get left on read but you don't have a mental breakdown about it because you're a fucking adult and you understand that people have things to do other than text you every moment of the day."

Also on the part about putting the other person first. It's not meaningful to put someone first if you're expected to do it. If you do it just because you want to, it means something. If you're already expected to, as you are in a relationship, then it's vapid.

And yeah, I hate X-rated stuff too.

@BlueMetalChick Basically too many motions to go through.

A few on here want to "get their lives in order" first.
problem is, once a relationship starts, one person wants to completely rearrange the other's.

@CestManan Yeah, I just want to get a better job than the one I have now, get my own place, and get a bit closer to finishing school. Those types of things.

@SubstantialKick Consider this -
If you are looking to date, there are probably plenty of others out there in your same position. If you are looking to date, no time like the present.