I Love My Husband
I love my husband. He always encourage me to let uncivilised situations go. He said it was never worth the energy and time. They need help. No one with virtues behaves in such aggressive and loud manners over trivial circumstances. Nasty or uncivilised people needs help because they are provoked over minor or accidental inconveniences too. They are uncalled for. It is not personal. They are like this to most people or whenever they have the chance.
My husband told me they are unhappy with their lives or something/someone in their lives were making them upset. My husband wants me to feel sorry for them then I should walk away from them when they are trying to take their problems out on me. He told me to ignore them. They are not part of our life.
A one few minutes situation is never remembered and it is insignificant in our life. I agree with him. He told me he in the world there will always be those type of people and they do not know how to civilised. If they have chance, they be hurt innocent, naive and inexperienced people. This include using people’s weaknesses to take advantage of them and abusing push overs. It best to ignore and leave the situation ASAP. My husband is right.
Knowing these make me never hate anyone trying to give me difficult times when I am only going out and about on my daily businesses. It is rare to encounter these people, but they do exist. I only hope them well now. I believe in being understanding.
Also he emphasises on never judging someone by their class, presentation, first impression, career, etc. We never judge people on their current situation in life. We do not know what people are going through. Their past may be traumatising. They are who they are for reasons. I want to be considerate to those personal reasons. He always tells me the most expected people in life are usually the most helpful, kind, rare and generous people in life. He reinforces to me the character and kindness of a person are the quality. People’s exterior and features can all be attain through hustling on sins, evilness, frauds, selfishness, etc. Intelligence can be taught to good and bad people if they truly seek and want it. There are always reasons for actions. Actions may never convey the true and real reasons.
I never judge anyone now. I always offer everyone the benefits out of any doubts first. Thank you
My husband told me they are unhappy with their lives or something/someone in their lives were making them upset. My husband wants me to feel sorry for them then I should walk away from them when they are trying to take their problems out on me. He told me to ignore them. They are not part of our life.
A one few minutes situation is never remembered and it is insignificant in our life. I agree with him. He told me he in the world there will always be those type of people and they do not know how to civilised. If they have chance, they be hurt innocent, naive and inexperienced people. This include using people’s weaknesses to take advantage of them and abusing push overs. It best to ignore and leave the situation ASAP. My husband is right.
Knowing these make me never hate anyone trying to give me difficult times when I am only going out and about on my daily businesses. It is rare to encounter these people, but they do exist. I only hope them well now. I believe in being understanding.
Also he emphasises on never judging someone by their class, presentation, first impression, career, etc. We never judge people on their current situation in life. We do not know what people are going through. Their past may be traumatising. They are who they are for reasons. I want to be considerate to those personal reasons. He always tells me the most expected people in life are usually the most helpful, kind, rare and generous people in life. He reinforces to me the character and kindness of a person are the quality. People’s exterior and features can all be attain through hustling on sins, evilness, frauds, selfishness, etc. Intelligence can be taught to good and bad people if they truly seek and want it. There are always reasons for actions. Actions may never convey the true and real reasons.
I never judge anyone now. I always offer everyone the benefits out of any doubts first. Thank you
