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@StonerGirl69 I know people have already said this but it's clear Paul doesn't care about your feelings and doesn't respect you as a person. The age gap also highlights the man may be too immature to handle a real relationship. I'd ditch him if I were you because you need someone who takes the time to communicate and make you feel secure
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MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Facesofone · 51-55, M
DreamCoCreators · 36-40, M
There may be something in what you say there. We have been through troubles like that, me and my other half. I had to shut the hell up for a bit. Ask questions, and allow whatever the hell came out to just fall out. Not interrupt. Not reply any more than to ask for a little clarification, or genuinely try to understand where they were coming from. I learnt a lot, so did they. They didn't realise they felt like that, and that thing was bothering them so much. Well, we progressed that way anyway. And they ended up in a space (eventually) where they could do the same for me and allow me that safe forum where it was ok to be me, and they genuinely wanted to understand where I was coming from even if it hurt. Good luck, but honestly looking at that message alone out of context I'd say you deserve better whether you believe it or not, and with your looks you would not find it difficult to find better either - if only you would lose the fear and simply ask for it...
MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M
Pherick · 41-45, M
@StonerGirl69 That is beyond words pathetic. Please, do you yourself a real favor, drop him like a hot potato. Anyone who would treat you with such disrespect when you obviously are upset is not worth your time.
To be honest, the reason a 40-year-old man is dating a 20 year old woman is because he can't hack it with women his real age. Those comments you posted are proof of that.
To be honest, the reason a 40-year-old man is dating a 20 year old woman is because he can't hack it with women his real age. Those comments you posted are proof of that.
DreamCoCreators · 36-40, M
@StonerGirl69 In that case 100% get rid. He deserves a lesson - and you would deliver one hell of a roundhouse kick by throwing him out.
MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
@StonerGirl69 What he's 20 years older and acting like that? He's giving us older guys a bad name. No you should expect him to treat you right and good and be careful with you. you have opened up to him and that's a gift he needs to keep safe not treat like a weapon against you.
Sorry that's happening
Sorry that's happening