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I Am Sick of Stupid People Doing Stupid Things

I don't understand how a family member can be upset with you because you feel a certain way about someone who tried to cause you harm years ago . How can anyone side with someone who put a false accusation on you. Yesterday was my daughter's birthday and my brother's long time gf of years . who three years ago called the cps on me with false accusations. I do not like that woman at all she was there during my child's bday I made a comment today to my mom and she got so upset and told me I'm just jealous of that person and other stupid comments how I need to get over it. She doesn't get the hurt I went through due to that yet somehow thinks it's wrong of me to feel how I feel . I think my mom only sides with her because my older brother that chick's long time bf helps my mom out financially . It's really stupid this is why I choose to be alone and isolated I'm tired of people in my life dismissing me and treating me like I'm nothing or I'm crazy for feeling how I feel about someone who came for me in that way. I just wanted to vent about this.
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Keaten · 31-35, M
@Smalltownwitch That's messed up! Your mom acts like you don't have HER granddaughter to support. You are a mother too! You are smart and right to be stacking your money as much as you can.
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Keaten · 31-35, M
@Smalltownwitch I understand that. You're financially responsible and sensible. They wish they could be that way and don't really understand how you do it. Their miserable and misery loves company.
Keaten · 31-35, M
I am so sorry that happened to you. I understand how you feel. I have dealt with family being like that to me my entire life. You have every right to be upset and hurt by your mother's actions. The good thing is, you can find other family. If your blood family doesn't want to treat you right, then find others who will and I PROMISE you, there are people who would love to be there for you and your daughter and and help look after you, me included! You're not alone.☺️
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Keaten · 31-35, M
@Smalltownwitch You're welcome. I understand that. It's better for you to have some peace in your life without always worrying about those closest to you stabbing you in the back. You're better off.
Pfuzylogic · M
It is good that you don’t depend on your Mother’s approval so that you can keep appropriate personal boundaries.
You are doing the right thing! 😊
Pfuzylogic · M
@Smalltownwitch
If they haven’t admitted what they had done was wrong where do you even start to reconcile?
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Pfuzylogic · M
@Smalltownwitch
I agree, it is sad when money overruns family values.

 
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