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I Have Never Had A Relationship

I'm 25 years old (almost 26) and I technically haven't had a relationship, you know, ignoring the bf/gf thing you have when you're like 7 and whatever you or in this case I, did back then.
And in all honesty, I'm not entirely sure why. I know for a fact that 1 reason is because I don't actively look for one but other than that, I've got no clue.
Maybe I'm just oblivious or maybe my standards are too high, which would be strange considering.
I always thought that this is something that just happens at random, not something you should go out hunting for.
But going by that logic, I think I might be one of those "forever alone" people.
I'm not that against it but sometimes it can feel like you need someone, even if just for a cuddle.
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Ignore the wishy washy fence sitters, get out there and make it happen. You’re only young once, seize the day or regret it bitterly when you’re older.
PurpleStar · 26-30, F
@Discotheque I'm glad I don't think like you. I'd rather regret something I haven't done, than regret something I have.

For example, and I'm gonna make it as bad as possible to get this point across.
I'd rather regret not being fucked by a horse than regret having done so.

You see what I mean.

Your thought process leads to gonorrhea and other std's ... or a torn colon if you go as far as the example I've made.
@PurpleStar you’re young, one day you’ll learn. And in the meantime make sure to enjoy your life anyway.
PurpleStar · 26-30, F
@Discotheque One day I'll learn ... what exactly? To live with an STD? To live with bleeding out your ass?

Cuz time doesn't stand still and I'm surprised that my hourglass hasn't run dry yet because it got really close a few years back. And no, no suicide attempts or anything, in case you're curious.
@PurpleStar I don’t really understand why you keep bringing up STDs and jail time. It’s perfectly possible to enjoy a healthy sex life with dozens of lovers over a period of decades without ever catching an STD or going to jail. About one day you’ll learn, I just mean that it’s more likely that one day you’ll regret not trying things than that you’ll regret trying them , at least in the area of sex and relationships, though obviously using sensible caution when appropriate. If you came close to dying as you’re suggesting, I’m glad you survived, now go find someone to enjoy all the dizzy heights and delicious pleasures of falling in love with, while you still can.
PurpleStar · 26-30, F
@Discotheque if you really don't understand why I brought up what I did... then I definitely understand why your thought process is so simply aboriginal. And so there's little more conversation for us to have. Unless you want to go out hunting together, I'm probably still somewhat decent with a bow.
@PurpleStar aboriginal?!🧐😳. Good luck , enjoy your life 🙏
PurpleStar · 26-30, F
@Discotheque Not entirely the word I was typing/thinking of (was on the phone, tends to have a mind of its own). But it kind of works perfectly XD