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I never understood People who were older and had no lovers or kids

But now I totally do. I don't think I want a lover or kids. Call me a coward but life is simpler when I'm alone.
As you are aware, I'm sure, according to God's Word, Christians who are single, are not to commit fornication. Yes, I agree. Life is much simpler when alone.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@LadyGrace I think more of you as family for we are both God's children😇. We are connected now and I believe God did it for a reason. I also believe every Christian can be better because after all the word of God says we were created in His image. The problem is some tend to forget who they are when they go out in the world just as James 1:23-25 says

[c=#BF0080][b]For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man observing his natural face in a mirror; for he observes himself, goes away, and immediately forgets what kind of man he was. But he who looks into the perfect law of liberty and continues in it, and is not a forgetful hearer but a doer of the work, this one will be blessed in what he does.[/b][/c]
@Lichocolati Yes sister, we are family and we stick together. ❤️🤗 I'm holding on with you every single day and believing for your healing. I know He'll do it.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@LadyGrace Amen to that. Thank you believing for my healing and offering to pray with me thanking God His faithfulness.
Rambler · M
A simple life can certainly be happy
Rambler · M
@Lichocolati Yep... it's got its drawbacks but got its benefits too
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@Rambler benefits from him were like...I can't even describe what to compare it to🙄
Rambler · M
You better believe it! It gets much too complicated, and stressful. Who needs it!
@Lichocolati 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Isn't it always. 😂 That's a no-brainer. They're under the illusion that "number 3,000 will be [i]different[/i]. BWAH-HAHAHAHAHA 🤯
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@LadyGrace that's is just sad 😆. When they go out in public they act like they have the perfect relationship just to appease people but those who've been in relationships know better 🙄
@Lichocolati You got that right.
TexChik · F
Aww, I have both and life is amazing 🤷🏻‍♀️
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@TexChik Lucky you
TexChik · F
@Lichocolati maybe so
Pretty simple.
Less libido and energy the older one grows.
Neither disappears completely, but it gets far easier to have choice in how one responds to inner drives, and it's no great loss if there's no physical lover. Far easier to satisfy oneself.
Energy becomes easier to direct into work, creativity and pleasurable forms of exercise.

On the other hand, I'm not actually alone. My husband and I never had kids, but we're great companions.

With climate change as it is, I wouldn't want to bring kids into this world.
@Lichocolati COVID seems to be a natural virus, like the last pandemic in 1918 that was obviously not created in a lab as the technology didn’t exist. But even assuming it was, the companies like Pfizer and Moderna that will be profiting from the vaccine have no connections to China where the virus originated.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@LeopoldBloom Now I'm not so sure COVIT was created, not since I discovered our government has been lying to us about the people dying from the flu. Seems like every death be it natural or getting stabbed is recorded under COVIT and it's all because they want money from WHO. I also saw a video of these old white men talking about the vaccine and that some billionaire organization invented this vaccine for population control. They also said a lot of racist things about who this vaccine has been created for. You guessed right if you thought one of them mentioned Africa was useless and deserved to have people die because he did. It surprised me because I've never asked anything from anybody. It left me wondering how my existence bothered them so much that they'd create this deadly vaccine
@hartfire "Less libido and energy the older one grows."

That may be true for some but it's not true for me. I have just as much of that as I did when I was a teenager. I don't know why but I certainly do. 😂
Solitude · 31-35
Same. The older I get, the more I'm okay with the very real possibility of being alone forever.
@Solitude Well, I'm up there in age and I'm certainly 100% happier by myself.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@LadyGrace My grandfather's sister has been by herself since I was just a child. Now she's in her 80s living with my grandfather and looks like she's in her 60s, my grandad is no different. It's weird how their genes are ageless 😂. But then again it's easier to say I don't want all that when I can't feel the lower half of my body. I hope I feel the same way after the healing manifests.
@Lichocolati You'll be fine. Whatever comes, will come naturally for you and then you can decide what you want to do.
Earthwrap · 41-45, M
It's a lonely world because people are so screwed up out there.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@Earthwrap that's mostly guys would you not say?
Earthwrap · 41-45, M
@Lichocolati No not at all.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@Earthwrap I guess it depends where you are. I live in a farm and older people here tend to converse with everyone when they go out. They'd be asking all them crazy questions just to kill time 😅
I come to realize how very rare I am & only waiting out for great people.
@DarkCrazyArtistGeekGamer Me too!! I refuse to settle. It seems I've been waiting all my life. I really have.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@LadyGrace It's better to be alone than be with someone and be unhappy. Besides I'm not entirely alone God is with me
@Lichocolati Amen to all that. Exactly.
SW-User
Don’t you miss the intimacy?
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@LadyGrace Thank you for sharing your testimony. There's nothing to be sorry about my dear. God let this happen to me for His glory. He turns worst situations into his masterpiece. Like you said nothing is impossible for Him. The Holy Spirit makes things happen. There's never a day I don't claim my healing. Even right now when I feel like I can't go on I still claim my healing, Jesus said His strength is made perfect in weaknesses🙂.
@Lichocolati That's so true. And if you'll notice, that verse does NOT say by his stripes I WILL be healed, or even I SHALL be healed. It says By His stripes, I AM healed, praise God! We already have our healing in Christ and in due time we see it come to fruition. FOR WE WALK BY FAITH, NOT BY SIGHT.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@LadyGrace Amen
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@Lichocolati Yes I believe that and I'm so glad you don't have to put up with that anymore. I am very content and happy right now just being by myself. It is so much better and happier and less headaches, for sure.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@LadyGrace I know right. I love that I don't have to worry that whoever I'm with will see my flaws and hate them. I can focus on loving God, myself and sharing His love with the world.
@Lichocolati Amen, sister. That's what counts.
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Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@LadyGrace Amen to that. I'm grateful God has and still is removing every impurity. That doesn't mean it's easy but it's necessary😅.
@Lichocolati Yep, we can all use that. Have you seen my latest post? I just put it up.
Lichocolati · 31-35, F
@LadyGrace Lemme check them out

 
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