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I Am Always Thinking and Thinking

Everything you are getting, it comes with a price. Even free love. I have seen so many girls who put their idea or wish to be in relationship, just because I was a good-person, or maybe some manly.
To be in relationship is a great thing, but that girl is great who is supportive to the guy's beliefs, dreams, and hobbies.. if she is not, not even 30% then she is just not compatible.

I have seen some very beautiful girls, seeing whom any person's eyes will drool.. well their beauty is temporary.. they had good hearts, which I liked. They wanted relationship.. but with a price.. they wanted me to change my religion in order to marry them.. well, for such a beauty, I might have.. but it is not wise, if they would ask me to stay away from my parents just because this girl has her own goal ambitions.

It is all about "if" that causes mistrust or trust to build, I wouldnt say No to a girl, if she learn to compromise as well, if I can compromise for her.
SoFine · 46-50, F
The main ingredients to a successful relationship - is not compromise. .

The main obstacle is - the insecurities that each has.

In relationships - the buttons that get triggered are all insecurities about one-self. The reason why one is upset, is that this situation is a reminder of a previous situation, so small issues become larger ones -they blow up all out of proportion.

So, I would love to be a fly on the wall - that is to see you married, after 10 years later, to see how your version of compromise has worked (indeed would be very interesting )

Remember a future wife will have to put up with your life insecurities and you with hers. ..
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