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Why do women who dress sexy complain about being objectified?

By dress sexy I am talking about shirts that expose nipples cleavage or belly, tight yoga pants or tight pants in general where we can see camel toe and panty lines and short shorts where the ass cheeks hang out and shorts so tight we can see the outline of the vulva and panties. Or dresses and skirts that go far north of the knee. Also clicking (loud) boots and high heels draw attention as well. I dont get why women would dress sexy but want to complain about guys focusing on their bodies instead of their mind. Are they just saying that because people are afraid that admitting to wanting attention would make people think they are slutty or do they actually believe men are capable of not being blinded by female beauty when its on full display?

For the record I do not believe nor am I calling for women to not dress sexy or the way they want. Just frustrated with their reactions to men they come across when they dress that way.
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Many women have felt they were not being respected, whatever they were wearing. I've noticed that the more you create gender ghettoes in a social group, the less respectful men will be.
ghostofapu · 26-30, M
@EarthlingWise What is a "gender ghetto"?
@ghostofapu When men live, work, play sports with men, and don't see women as equals, as partners, whether it's at school, in boarding schools, or at work.
ghostofapu · 26-30, M
@EarthlingWise So basically any gathering of men?
@ghostofapu It becomes a ghetto when men stop interacting with women. Only see women as preys.
ghostofapu · 26-30, M
@EarthlingWise Men who see women as "prey" interact with women all the time. Its called the club and bar scene and social media.