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I Need Someone to Talk to Right Now

Feeling like im not good enough for anyone. I feel like when they see me they seem like im not attractive enough
Hush92 · 26-30, F
What caused you to feel this way?
Kyle1791 · 31-35, M
@Hush92 stranger. She wanted to texted
Hush92 · 26-30, F
@Kyle1791 Ok, that level of communication sounds to be a bit much for someone who is a stranger to you. That is more something I would like from a boyfriend. Constant texts from a stranger can come off as creepy and also annoying.

I would recommend in the future (things are probably already blown with this girl if she's been ignoring you) messaging a girl maybe just a few times a week at first. Don't just say "hello" or "whats up". It helps if you have something specific to talk about. If it is a girl on here, try messaging her about a post she made, ask a question about it or just mention you found it interesting and why. If its a girl in real life maybe from work or something ask a work related question. From there you can go into a conversation if she seems interested, but know that in the beginning stages the conversation will probably not last all day.

If all goes well here for a few weeks or so then you can try something like asking the person out to coffee or dinner or something. If they say no then it wasn't meant to be. Don't get too disheartened, that just means that person wasn't for you!!

Once you are officially seeing each other in a romantic sense that is when texting more frequently typically happens.
Kyle1791 · 31-35, M
@Hush92 she wanted me to blow up her phone. Thats why im so confused and feel like im not attractive. Is she playing games with me?
Niloo · 46-50, F
I’m so sorry ...
We all feel like that every once in a while ...
It’s almost never as bad as we feel it in our head ..
Kyle1791 · 31-35, M
@Niloo i just don't know what to do

 
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