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As adult are you grateful for the punishments you got as a child?

My parents say I will be gratedful for the belt and the cane.
ArtieKat · M
Times have changed - almost beyond recognition - since I was your age, Erik. Corporal punishment, at school as much as at home, was the norm. I think we were more stoic and philosophical about punishments if we were caught misbehaving.
Fernie · F
@erik2000: No...you removed and changed the word "beat"...and that is what some people responded to. UGH! WHY DO I EVEN BOTHER TRYING TO TALK TO LITTLE KIDS? My bad!
erik2000 · 22-25, M
@ArtieKat: Of course . It doesn't hurt less if I say spank or beat. Plus I haven't changed the wording.
erik2000 · 22-25, M
@Fernie: I used the word beating in my response to Th1nkF1rst comment. It is still there and you commented that.
boorjulie · 36-40, F
I never got hit so I'm grateful for my mother that she punished me reasonably.
But if you get hit with the belt or the cane, I don't think you will ever be grateful for it. It must hurt like hell.
erik2000 · 22-25, M
Of course it hurts, I get it naked.
Fernie · F
it hurts emotionally more than physically
karinaal · 70-79, F
I cannot remember ever being punished without deserving it and I know that the punishments helped me learn better how I was supposed to behave.
I am grateful for the wonderful childhood - including the punishments - my parents gave me.
hami1091 · 41-45, F
I'm grateful my parents disciplined me and taught me right from wrong, no I'm not grateful for how they punished me.
Salix75 · 46-50, F
No. they didn't help at all, rather I found them counterproductive to my sense of self and self-worth
Datdudeblack · 36-40, M
no really. but i guess it taught me a way not to punish my kids when i have some.
Th1nkF1rst · 70-79, M
you had better be
and thank them for it!
at least they feed you!
mine beat me and made eat with the animals
Fernie · F
@erik2000: beating a child is pure abuse...they have NO clue what's "best for you" violence is not ok!
erik2000 · 22-25, M
@Fernie: I think they are too strict but I don't think it is abuse.
Fernie · F
@erik2000: YOU said they "beat" you. Perhaps you want to rephrase that? Beating a child IS ABUSE AND ILLEGAL
curiosi · 61-69, F
No, although it really wasn't punishment when you get beat constantly and don't even know the reason. Maybe cuz they were psychopaths.
erik2000 · 22-25, M
I guess they were.
Yes, for getting me on the right track; No, for the traumatic effect on me; yet should be, as I know I should be punished more properly to help me to develop a good character
Fernie · F
No! It at away my self worth and self esteem. All punishments are not alike though
firefall · 61-69, M
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