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Why do people tell me to move on with my life from my mom?

My mom left my dad and I when I was 7-8 years old. I kept trying to reach out to my mom but she keeps rejecting me. It hurts. My dad said I need to stop calling her and I need to go on with my life and I don’t need her. I haven’t seen her since 2010. He gets hard on me when I’m dwelling in the past and he isn’t letting it happen. Not on his watch. My dad can be too tough sometimes. I hate Mother’s Day because people talk about how amazing they’re mommies are. I don’t have that. Nobody says anything about my mom. My half siblings (who are grown and in their 30s) said I should appreciate our aunt for stepping in to take the mother role and give her the Mother’s Day gift. My brother said I have know idea how much I mean to my aunt and I’m very special to her. They also said why waste time on a woman that doesn’t want me? My aunt admitted that I am her favorite niece out of all of them. My sister is her second favorite. I’ve always envied my siblings because they have an amazing mother. I want my mom! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
NeloAngelo · 26-30, M
it's unfortunate but they do have a point. at a certain point the only person hurt is you. it wont be easy to get past it and it will take time but instead focus on those who are loving and supportive of you. you have an aunt, father and siblings. plz don't push them away looking for something that might not be there.
AutismGirl18 · 18-21, F
@NeloAngelo Yes I love them but I need a mother. My mom won’t call me and she rejected me so many times. My guy friend told me to be careful and she’s hurt me so many times and don’t have my hopes up.
They need to let you grieve on your own terms.
AutismGirl18 · 18-21, F
@Amyrakunejo Thank you. I need my mom but my mom keep rejecting me. 😭😭😭😭😭

 
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