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I head of men leaving their wives because they no longer look attractive. Does women do that to their husbands?

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
No, they stop having sex with their husbands.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@GJOFJ3 I think you have to be physically attracted to your spouse but things typically get stale in the bedroom. There’s no passion or adventure. It’s the same thing over and over and most of the time done in 10 minutes so it’s hardly worth it.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
@Keepitsimple I guess we were lucky then
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I love to hear about those kind of relationships where both people have that drive and passion for each other. It makes a huge difference out of the bedroom when people truly care about each other. @GJOFJ3
ChiyoSKL · 31-35, F
You know. My ex husband started to get chunkier and my bf now has a dad bod, but I still found him and find the ex sexy as ever. It was my ex husbands dick head personality that made me leave. I'm sure if they were morbidly obese that would be one thing, but not just for a little extra weight. Men are way more likely to leave over looks I believe.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
@ChiyoSKL I think you are right
TexChik · F
Human nature has rarely been honorable ... but for a spouse to completely let themselves go tells the other partner that they no longer care about them or having a healthy sex life . Far too many women have depression , get on meds , and eat a ton of ice cream before bed every night and balloon up ... men get a big beer gut and fall asleep in front of the TV every night . That type of behavior is bad health and relationship wise . Before I married my hubby and I were both very fit and that was a big part of our attraction for each other . We both have stayed fit through the years ( it’s really not that difficult) because we each want the other to be attracted to us . When your spouse is no longer worth trying to look your best for .., what does that say about your relationship? Obviously I see lots of married couples that let it all go . But I still like romance , and sex , and being desired ...I’m not nearly done with all that yet ! 😊
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
@TexChik This is awesome!
JBird · F
Yep. One woman on here did that cause he wasn't looking as good as he aged.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@canusernamebemyusername Hello boys and girls...can you say "shallow"?🙄
JBird · F
@canusernamebemyusername I am lucky that I am not attractive so that I get someone who loves me for being me rather how I look
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@JBird That is what true love is...being loved/admired, wanted, accepted, and appreciated just as you are and for who you are.🤠
Spica · 31-35, F
Yes, but to a lesser extent, by far
women want economic security and they often whore out to get it

So looks are not that important

marriage is nothing but the eternal reminder of sexual inequality in our filthy economy...

so I never married. I was already so economically insecure I really didn't need all that male contempt to go along with it. Especially after trying to whore out for him when all else went wrong. Too risky an investment 4 me.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
I'm sure some do.
SW-User
Yes,they do.
msros · F
I see many couples after years where the wife is young and sprightly and the husband is bald and gray.......and they are still together.

 
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