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Have you ever had one parent try to poison you against the other?

It's a strange thing to experience. It also lets you see how that particular parent really feels and what they're willing to do to get their way.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Yes. Both of them were terrible. The day I got the phone call he died she bashed him even.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I was abused. Doesn’t mean I have to be all pyscho with my kids and live my life all crazy. If you live in the past you can never be happy in the present. It was so long ago. @raysam363
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@Keepitsimple You and I seem to have more in common than I thought.

I think it's made us stronger people in the long run. It's sad how some people just can't seem to move forward.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I am strong and strong willed lol. I also had wonderful grandparents that were biggest supporters. My life is very good overall. If I ever got divorced (my kids are grown now also) I would move on. They are entitled to their relationship with their father without guilt or persuasion.@SW-User
TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
I don't know if this counts, but I remember one particular time when my mom tried to make me feel bad about being too much like my dad. But instead of poisoning me against him, it made me feel bad for him. I started to realize that he was being picked on by her almost as much as I was, though I don't think I'll ever know what she has put him through, and continues to put him through.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@TeresaRudolph71 I think the kind of behavior your mom exhibited often backfires...eventually.
TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
@DrWatson Eventually, yes, though she usually behaves very differently toward my sisters and my nieces and nephews. But I suppose the truth comes out eventually.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
My wife had to deal with this during the years before her parents' divorce. After the divorce, she rediscovered her Dad and re-established a relationship with him, after she was no longer seeing him through her Mom's lens, so to speak. In fact, while she had felt closer to her Mom than her Dad, that eventually reversed.
raysam363 · 31-35, F
@DrWatson I'm in a similar boat believe it or not. Sure, my dad is no saint, but a lot of the crap I've been hearing about him has been exaggerated. Didn't help that he was the breadwinner for most of their marriage and often worked overtime.
fallnhope · 36-40, F
Yes, it was hard to unlearn the lies told
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raysam363 · 31-35, F
@fallenite It's always a long story, and usually not an easy path. Good on you for dealing with it early.
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SW-User
I've had both parents try to poison me against the other. The anger and resentment, the petty remarks, remained until each of their deaths. I loved my parents but I didn't like either one of them. They weren't people I would choose as a friend. Both were toxic in different ways.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
My father, but he was evil.
yes rip mother
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My mom would poison her youngest kids against her oldest kids and visa versa. And that is partly why I am not close to my siblings. But I forgive her and understand why she did it.
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Nope. I only had one parent.

 
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