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This is two questions about family.

First have you ever been verbally attacked by multiple family members?
Second, do you stand up for yourself or ignore them?
lizisbizzy · 22-25, F
Yes and with my dad I'd ignore him but it went to a point where he thought it was okay to belittle me in such a way that I started standing up for myself, if that makes sense.
Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F
Oh no, that’s not good at all. He’s hurting himself and others by drinking, his health must be pretty bad...
lizisbizzy · 22-25, F
Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F
I truly hope he gets better and stops hurting you.
Henal · 26-30, F
Yes very often. I tried to stand up for myself, but didn't really work well in my favour, so I learnt to ignore it
Henal · 26-30, F
@Itsjustbrit Thank you ☺️ You are very sweet 🤗
Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F
Aw thank you so much, I try my best not to hurt anyone because I’m sensitive and know how it feels. I wish I was stronger but it’s not that easy.
Henal · 26-30, F
@Itsjustbrit To me, you seem just as strong ☺️
Yes. I ignored it at first. After awhile I got fed up with it and stood up for myself.
Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F
That’s true, I truly love your positivity. You are a inspiration to me ♥️
@Itsjustbrit thanks. You can message me if you ever need to talk!
Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F
Oh I would love that! I’ll add you! After I reply to all everyone's answers I’m gonna take a nap. The rain makes me sleepy.
TheunderdogofNY · 36-40, M
They try. But I'll drop them like a bad habit. I get my own money and do my own thing. So there is little they can tell me. I'll just ignore them if I can and just peace out if I cannot.
Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F
Wow, you are truly amazing and I’m so proud of you, you should always do what makes you happy! @TheunderdogofNY
yes, and i have tried my best to stand up to them. it’s not easy tbh. especially when it’s your own parents and siblings
Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F
That really sucks, I’m so sorry. I bet you are amazing and no one deserves to be attacked in any way!@soulsrespite
a few times, but it was deserved. if i am in the right, which i usually am LOL, i will stand up and fight though.
Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F
Yeah! That’s awesome! @SheCallsMeCrushDaddy
SW-User
Yes.
Used to fight back. No use. Now I just ignore them as much as possible.
Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F
I’m sorry you had to went through that, I wish I could’ve stand up for you. @SW-User
GallantlyChurlish · 46-50, M
Mine aren’t bold enough for confrontation. They prefer conspiring.
Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F
Oh that doesn’t sound good either...@GallantlyChurlish
I HAVE been verbally attacked by multiple family members, and I just froze. Standing up for myself was WAY too dangerous. It would have brought on more attack. And ignoring them, was impossible. It was all just too painful.
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Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F
I’m sorry you have gone through that@Psycho
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Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F
Yeah I believe that too, but I hope it stops us from repeating history because we know how it feels.

 
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