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What is controversial about the notion that having a child is not an accomplishment?

Are mothers more offended by this statement than fathers?
Mamapolo2016 · F Best Comment
Simply having a child is not an accomplishment. It's a side effect of sexual intercourse. Trying to make sure it's a healthy baby and raising it with love and care: that's an accomplishment.

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Accomplishment is raising a child into a happy adult.
@SW-User who isn’t an asshole
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@Pinkstarburst yes, thats what i meant. Raising a "quality" adult. Since that requires a lot of work and many years, it is almost never accomplished.
For those who might struggle to have children, it may be seen as an accomplishment. Why does it matter if a person thinks of it as an accomplishment or not?

[b]ac·com·plish·ment[/b]
/əˈkämpliSHmənt/
noun
•something that has been achieved successfully.
•the successful achievement of a task.

[b]a·chieve·ment[/b]
/əˈCHēvmənt/
noun
1. a thing done successfully, typically by effort, courage, or skill.

Have they not successfully done something?
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PoizonApple · 41-45, F
Im a mother and not offended by it. Having a child is not an accomplishment. I do think raising a happy decent human being is.
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Reject · 26-30, M
I've never looked at it as a accomplishment before.
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
I guess it just sounds salty
It’s not like you ladies are pioneers 🤣
xixgun · M
Animals have young sometimes more than once a year
Its an accomplishment unless you hate your kid then its a terrible mistake.
Chickie · F
I guess breeders don't want to feel bad that it's not special

 
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